Taking the Long Way

Time Will Tell

2010-11-23T10:14:00.002-06:00

Well I have severely neglected this poor blog, but I am trying to get back into blogging and with a new blog dedicated to my kitchen adventures, Pepper Food. I will be updating in both blogs more frequently.

First Jjimjilbang (찜질방) Experience

2010-07-10T23:19:00.001-05:00

I was fortunate enough to have four days off of teaching and decided to have an extended stay in Seoul. I got in on Wednesday night and stayed with my friend Dustin. On Thursday, I met up with two of my former students and had lunch at Buddha's Belly in Itaewon. They have a pretty good lunch menu and tasty Thai food. Minah and Jinsoo had never had Thai food before and they both enjoyed their selections. I had a massage appointment at Healing Hands and while I was being pampered (fully body, hot stone and paraffin foot treatment for only 70,000W!) they explored Itaewon. After my massage they took me to Samcheong-dong, it is near the largest palace in Seoul (Gyeongbokgung) and it is an artsy area with a lot of really neat art galleries and quaint coffee shops. Definitely a place I'd like to explore again.

Once we finished checking out a few of the galleries, we headed to my old neighborhood to go to Lotte Jjimjilbang. A jjimjilbang is a Korean public bathhouse. It is gender segregated in some parts and communal in others. When you get into the jjimjilbang you pay the attendant about 7,000W and they hand you a slip of paper with your locker number, a few towels and the jjimjilbang uniform. Once inside, you place your shoes in a small cabinet and then head to the locker room. It's best to shower before heading into the pools and/or the sauna areas. So, you strip down, head to the shower area which is also where the pools are. They are filled with all different temperatures of water and you can move from pool to pool or stay in one. If you decide to head to the resting area/saunas you put your uniform on (shorts and a t-shirt) and grab one of your towels and head out. The saunas vary in temperature too. We started in one that was 174 degrees Fahrenheit! Immediately after, we headed to the ice room at a cool 23 degrees. We didn't have a whole lot of time as I was meeting a friend for dinner, but it was a nice first experience and I can't wait to go back!

On Saturday night, Dustin and I saw Eclipse and it was pretty good. I can't wait to finish the Twilight books now though because I can't wait for the next movie to find out what happens!

Three Weeks In...

2010-06-29T07:04:00.005-05:00

It seems my lack of blogging has put me near the end of my first three weeks of teaching. As I'm only teaching for six weeks this makes it a pivotal point in my return to Korea. This time around I am teaching college freshman who are finishing their English requirement. Thankfully I've been blessed by the higher level students, but I will admit, it has still been quite challenging as only half the class really understands the daily conversations and tasks. With that said, it will be interesting to see what the next three weeks will bring as I will also be balancing a 3 credit course, 3 hours, 4 days a week. It should prove interesting, but of course, I'm always up for a challenge.

Life in Daejeon is a bit more laid back than life in Seoul, but not without its unique eccentricities of course. I actually prefer the pace here to the pace in Seoul however, I do like that I know my way around Seoul, know how to get places and was privileged to live in a prime location. Woosong is hectic. I say that with some restraint as I've had some problems with things here, but at the same time, it is more me adjusting to Korean life again. Having previously been to Korea I know that things do not always happen the way they are supposed to or even in a fashion that I am accustom to. With that said, it has been, once again, a learning experience on my part. I am so blessed with this opportunity once again and I'm trying to make the most of it.

My days in Daejeon are filled with teaching, hiking and once again devouring delicious Korean food. I try to eat kimchi daily as I missed it more than I eve knew. I also try to eat something different everyday, not necessarily something new, but different at least. Below are a few pictures from the past few weeks.

Daejeon as seen from my hike

Uma Park, about a mile from my apartment

Welcome to Daejeon + Thankful Thursday

2010-06-17T05:19:00.003-05:00

On June 6th, I left for Korea. Again. This time a two month stint in Daejeon, which pales in comparison to my previous 13 months in Seoul. I spent the first two days in Seoul and on June 9th, made my way to Daejeon. Daejeon is about an hour southwest of Seoul by the high-speed KTX train or about 2 hours by normal train. I'm sharing an apartment with my friend Sarah and it is quite nice. Daejeon is smaller than Seoul, but not small by any means. 1.5 million people occupy this city and while it's subway system is a one liner at the moment, extensive bus and train systems are in effect. I spent my 25th birthday here with Sarah and Jenna and then headed to Seoul for the weekend. Not a whole lot to report yet. I will recap my first week teaching at a later date (probably tomorrow)

Thankful Thursday
This wonderful opportunity to be back in Korea

Turning 25 a week ago

Getting to visit BIS, my old school in Seoul

Amazing Korean food

Round Two

2010-06-03T20:30:00.002-05:00

I leave for Korea on June 6th! I land in the land of the Morning Calm at 5pm on June 7th. Watch out Korea, I'm coming back!

P.S. I know I've neglected this blog the last month or so, but that's all about to change my friends. I have updates coming soon about Target Field, running and of course, more KOREA!!!

Thankful Thursday

2010-04-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Classes being finished

New running shoes to break in tonight at the SCSU on the Move 5K

One in class final + one take home final

A year of graduate school finished

Life Changes at 13.1 Miles

2010-04-25T19:02:00.005-05:00

Eight months ago I embarked upon a journey that I thought would end at a single 5K race. A single race of 3.1 miles, and about nine weeks of training to get to that point. By the end of December I had completed eight 5K races and began to wonder if I could one day run a 10K or even, gasp, a half-marathon. While I was not necessarily determined to run a half-marathon anytime in the near future, I found an enticing one on April 24th. I began training in the end of January, early February and realized along the way that most of the battle was mental. Physically, I could do it, mentally, completely unsure. Last weekend, I decided to run a half-marathon relay with my friend Kate, just to get some distance in before an attempt at a half-marathon. I ended up running the 7.1 mile portion of the race and while it was slow going, I completed the race and Kate and I had a half-marathon time of 2 hours 32 minutes.

Enter this weekend. Rainy Saturday, ankle issues and a plethora of doubts. And the weekend of the half-marathon. 13.1 miles of running. Doubts plagued me up until mile 6, where I decided to take the half-marathon route as opposed to the 10K route. Doubts then again plagued me at mile 7 when my feet, soaked by the rain, began to blister and hurt. Doubts plagued me at mile 8, mile 9, mile 10, mile 11, mile 12 and mile 13. The doubt left as I crossed the finish line in 2 hours 58 minutes. A slow 13:34 mile pace, but I finished. I, Molly Refsland, finished a half-marathon. My dad was there to see me finish and I would not have wanted it any other way.

I am thinking of running another half in August and a 10 miler in October. I am now, what I consider to be, a runner. A slow, "caboose," but I am a runner. And running has changed my life. It has made me confident, stronger and healthier. It has made me realize that running can be fun, it can be challenging and it can altogether suck, but I cannot stop running. At this point, I will say a full marathon is probably not in my future, but we'll see. Someday :)

Thankful Thursday

2010-04-22T23:57:00.001-05:00

My parents coming to visit tomorrow

Finishing my grammar paper

Having a great night with some of my favorite people

Knowing I'm where I'm supposed to be

Jamie Oliver

2010-04-17T18:48:00.003-05:00

Nutrition and running go hand in hand. If I don't eat the right foods, I tend to not be able to run as far or as fast. So I have taken a real liking to Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution. In a brief, but meaningful blog, I encourage you all to sign his petition.

Please, check out Jamie Oliver's website and sign the petition.

Help stop the epidemic of obesity in this country. As a woman who is considered obese, I believe it is very important for children to learn about proper nutrition. I wish I had learned more in my youth, not that you can combat genetics, but it wouldn't have hurt to know how to eat right and to be influenced by my school lunches.

Thankful Thursday

2010-04-15T20:16:00.002-05:00

Running two races this weekend (5K tomorrow and half-marathon relay on Saturday)

Seeing my parents next weekend

Making my mom's spaghetti sauce tonight for a pasta dinner tomorrow

Clean laundry

Faith

2010-04-13T21:33:00.002-05:00

I'm not usually one to write about religion because I don't really know a whole lot about religion. I know that I was raised Christian and I'd say my morals are guided by Christian principles. I haven't been to church in roughly 5 years, but I am a firm believer that going to a building to worship doesn't make you any more of a religious person than someone who devotes time to God, or another higher power in their home. I think people struggle with religion and faith and spirituality because we have so many options, people telling us one thing is better than the other. However, over the past few years, I've come to realize that a set religion, such as Christianity, isn't important, but having faith or belief in something, anything, is what is important. Dustin, the man I used to date, is Pagan and while I don't know much about the religion, I know he believes in something, has faith in some higher being. To me, this extremely important because in all honesty, you can't do things on your own, nobody has enough friends or family to lean on all the time. I think somewhere in my youth I lost sight of my faith and I've tried to find it again. Over and over.

I struggle with the constructs of certain Christian ideals, including the Bible. I've often argued that it needs to be updated, contemporized. I have a difficult time understand "uber" Christians who to me, are not in touch with reality or the changing world around them. With that said, I envy, to a certain extent, people who are incredibly in touch with their religious beliefs. What I've realized in regards to that is that I envy people who can have faith in something that could be totally made up. A complete hoax. But faith is what grounds these people, faith in something whether real or imagined, faith that someone is watching over them.

And it's faith that has helped me though. Through a breakup that I thought I was over, thought was good and thought I had a grasp on. Through graduate school. Through my doubts, disbeliefs, and disasters. Through long runs and lazy afternoons. Faith in something. I'm not even sure what. I do believe that a higher being is watching over me, guiding me, helping me through the day. Someone I can talk to, knows all about me and has a master plan for me. A plan I don't know about and one I'll never know to its entirety. But I have faith. Faith gets me through my day.

Thankful Thursday

2010-04-08T20:40:00.000-05:00

Getting Twins v. Rangers tickets for May 30th (at Target Field!)

Being able to hang out and relax with friends tomorrow night

Realizing my dreams and continuing to follow them

My incredibly amazing family

Founder's Day

2010-04-06T09:56:00.009-05:00

While it was almost two weeks ago, I thought I'd give a little shout out to Founder's Day at Cottey College. For those of you who don't know, Cottey College is a two year liberal arts college for women. Cottey is full of memories for me and other alumnae and it truly was the best way for me to spend the first two years of college. Without Cottey, I would have never met some of the most amazing women on this planet and probably wouldn't have been encouraged to pursue anything I'd like. I love Cottey College and someday I hope to have daughters to carry on a Cottey tradition.

Speaking of tradition, Founder's Day Weekend is quite possibly the best tradition Cottey has. One weekend every year, the college invites its alumnae back to relive their experience, see people they haven't seen in years and to help carry on the vision of Virgina Alice Cottey. This year was my 5 year reunion and I had the pleasure of seeing many of my friends and even making some new ones. I can't even express how much I value my education and experience at Cottey, but I will say, it was amazing and one of a kind.

The best part of my trip? Seeing my best friend Kali and her beautiful baby boy, Judah.

Opening Day

2010-04-05T19:52:00.002-05:00

In honor of Opening Day/Week for baseball, I thought I'd share with you a few things from my favorite team, the Minnesota Twins. First of all, thanks to my dad for being a Twins fan and I guess making me one. I like the Twins, but now with a brand new, outdoor field, I may even love them. While I have yet to step foot in Target Field, I anticipate it greatly.

The following is my favorite commercial...maybe of all time. I get so happy when I see it, smiley and giddy, it is a bit odd, but baseball season is finally here and we have a new stadium! Holla!

One of the reasons I love baseball so much is because I get to go to games with my dad. He's truly my hero and getting to spend time with him always brightens my day. He loves the Twins and he enjoys baseball so getting to do something we both enjoy is beyond amazing. My dad has taught me a lot about baseball throughout the years, but what I remember most is cheering on the Twins with him while he tells me pitcher's ERAs, batting averages, how many homeruns Mauer has hit and who we just acquired on a trade. Just the simple act of spending time with my dad. And of course having a beer or two :)

Here's to a great baseball season. GO TWINS!!!!!! I cannot wait to go to Target Field with my dad in May :)

Thankful Thursday

2010-04-01T17:22:00.001-05:00

Warm weather...running in shorts and a t-shirt!

Two VERY good classes (observation one day, debate the next)

Getting to see my Cottey girls last weekend

Lazy afternoons

Korea...Again?

2010-03-23T11:00:00.003-05:00

I have decided to spend my summer in Korea. I will be in Deajeon (대전) at Woosong University. I'll be there from about June 5 until August 10-ish. Not only will I be taking a class (supposed to be two, but I'm already in Vocabulary Acquisition so I'll take 3 credits of thesis), but I will also be teaching listening and speaking classes to Korean students studying for the TOEIC. I currently teach listening and speaking at St. Cloud State University so this should be a nice and relatively harmless transition. I won't be working with the little ones like I did in 2008-2009, but I'm still looking forward to spending yet another summer in the Land of the Morning Calm.

Thankful Sunday

2010-03-21T12:21:00.005-05:00

Running 8 miles (only 5 more in my pursuit to the half-marathon...and I have 5 weeks!)

Spending a wonderful 5 days in New York City

Heading to Missouri on Thursday to see Kali (my best new mommy friend) and then Founder's Day weekend at Cottey College (it's been 5 years!!)

Spring has sprung!

Only 6 weeks of classes remaining.

Heading to Korea for the summer!!

Thankful Thursday

2010-03-04T15:17:00.001-06:00

This week I am thankful for:

Spring break starting

Running 7 miles and working on speed

Going to New York City tomorrow!!!

Being content with where life is leading me

Running Reflection

2010-02-28T18:36:00.004-06:00

Well, today I ran the most I've ever run: 6 miles. I'd have to say I'm rather proud of this because 5 months ago I couldn't run 10 minutes straight. I'm a slow runner, more of a jogger, but I ran for an hour and 15 minutes today. It was icy, I slipped a few times and I wanted to quit about a million times, but I'm almost halfway to my half-marathon goal. I have 55 days until the Get in Gear Half-Marathon. It has been seemingly more of a mental battle than a physical one, but being someone not used to running more than maybe 3 miles at a time (in the last 5 months that is) it has been grueling on my body. I get sore every time I run, but I know I am accomplishing something so it doesn't bother me so much. I still haven't quite figured out how to eat right and that has been frustrating as I'd like to try and drop a few pounds (or inches) in this pursuit. Now that I'm focused on this half-marathon, I've been looking for a few more to run before I head back to Korea for the summer. Possibly the Green Bay half-marathon?

Picture: Brittany, Kate and me after the Snowflake Shuffle 5K in St. Joseph, MN. I ran right around a 36 minute 5K which is normal for me, but I'm looking to improve on that :)

And for those interested, this is the half-marathon plan I've been using.

Here's Hoping

2010-02-25T20:23:00.002-06:00

I have decided to revamp my blog in hopes that I will be posting more often. I have realized that I really miss writing about everyday things, while trivial, it is cathartic. I am also in the beginning stages (4 weeks in) of training for a half-marathon and I thought it would be nice to have a place to document my successes and failures, my angst and happiness through the training process. I've also decided that while I'm not very good about doing things everyday, I want to work on updating as much as possible. Maybe just pictures, maybe short words, anything to keep the creativity flowing.

Today's picture: a beautiful sunset from Karon Beach on Phuket, Thailand. It's cold and snowy here, but in early August I was spending my evenings on the balcony of the Hilton Arcadia Resort. A beautiful ending to the most amazing vacation I've ever had.

Thankful Thursday

2010-02-25T09:47:00.001-06:00

Having my paper finished and handed in

A rather relaxing weekend ahead, not too much homework

New York City in 8 days!

Being patient

Thankful Thursday

2010-02-04T11:56:00.003-06:00

Registering for a half-marathon (hoping I'll be ready is another thing)

Having Dustin meet my family last weekend

Heading to Duluth this weekend

Trying new recipes

2009 Reflection and 2010 Outlook

2010-01-20T19:45:00.005-06:00

Yes this is about 21 days late, but I'd like to reflect on things that went well and not so well in 2009 and also look forward to what 2010 may bring.

So...2009...
I spent the first 8 months of it in Korea
Teaching, traveling, making friends, eating DELICIOUS food and growing.
I rang in the New Year in downtown Seoul with presumably millions of Koreans.
China in May, climbed the Great Wall, ate sticky strawberries and haggled.
Marked a year in Korea in July and celebrated a month later in Thailand,
The most beautiful place I've ever visited.
Flew home to my family and fought jet lag for about a month.
Started my master's degree in Teaching English as a Second Language,
Quickly started teaching again, adjusted to America and made new friends.
Lost my grandfather...I'm lucky to have had 24 of his 85 years.
Met a wonderful man and am planning on spending the rest of my life with him.
Had Thanksgiving dinner with my family...ahhhh, turkey, cranberries, lefse!
Finished the semester with a decent GPA and a research paper I'm proud of.
Celebrated Christmas with my family and enjoyed every moment.
Racked up eight 5Ks and a few PRs...best decision I've ever made...running is FUN!

And...2010...
Rang in the New Year with an amazing man.
Started a second semester of graduate work and
Decided for now that I will forgo my teaching license.
For the first time in a long time, I am incredibly happy.
May be headed overseas to teach...UAE, Saudi Arabia, Korea again...
May stay state side and pursue a Ph.D.
Hopefully and probably getting hitched to that amazing man.
Training for a half-marathon (a full will have to wait, I think, until 2011)
And keeping up with the 5Ks and eventually, 10Ks (soon!!!).
And whatever else may find me in 2010, I am ready for it...good or bad.

I'm Still Here

2010-01-12T20:47:00.001-06:00

I have not forgotten about this blog. I promise to update soon.

It's been a very busy new year and a very exciting few months.

Updates will happen :)

Missing Monday

2009-12-07T15:58:00.004-06:00

Today I miss shopping in Seoul's Myeongdong (명동) shopping district. Some of my favorite Saturdays were spent with Ashley and Dani shopping for bargains at the plethora of street vendors and stores within this bustling district. Of course we also were able to eat some delicious food and partake in our favorite pastime, photo booth pictures.

I'm Still Here

2009-12-07T15:52:00.002-06:00

So, I've been forgetting to post lately and I have no excuse really. I'm busy, sure, but not busy enough to neglect my blog. Originally I had planned on making a New Year's resolution to write in the blog as often as possible, but there is no time like the present. So, in order to stay motivated I've decided to start a daily blog topic. For example, I already have Thankful Thursday. Now, I'm going to have Missing Monday, Thoughtful Tuesday, Weird Wednesday, Reflective Friday (thanks to my friend Amanda) and a kind of Wrap-up Weekend. This should get me writing daily (or 6 days a week) and while they won't be full blown blogs, it'll be a start.

Thankful Thursday

2009-11-20T00:48:00.002-06:00

Setting a 5K PR...cut 3 minutes off my time!

Finally getting meds for my sinus infection

Egg Nog season (now I just need snow!)

My sister coming on Sunday

Fitness classes

Thankful Thursday

2009-11-12T19:00:00.003-06:00

In all the craziness of the past few weeks, I've forgotten to update Thankful Thursday. So, again, for the past two weeks, I am rather grateful for:

My students (especially the Korean ones who are doing Cultural Cafe tomorrow on ROK and they will be serving KIMCHI!!!!)

5Ks! I have 4 more lined up for this month and I'm super excited!

An unlimited supply of black olives at the many grocery stores (after living without them for a year, I am soooo thankful I can purchase a can or two whenever I want!)

Public libraries

Doing well on my Phonetics & Phonology test

Thankful Thursday

2009-10-29T19:34:00.001-05:00

I missed last Thursday because I was in a car on the way to Mississippi to see my lovely sister. This week (and last week) I am thankful for:

Being able to run another 5K on Halloween

Getting two presentations out of the way

Learning to make Puppy Chow from my sister

Extending the love to our newest family member, Mike (Laura's engaged!!!)

Having the weekend be here so quickly...this week FLEW

Thankful Thursday

2009-10-15T22:35:00.002-05:00

After a long week, I am thankful for:

Having my mom stay with me for a few days

Crossing "Run a 5K" off my life aspirations list (I now have 2 more lined up)

Snow on an October morning (the morning of my 5K)

Thankful Thursday

2009-10-08T15:20:00.002-05:00

Even with the death of my grandfather yesterday, I still have much to be thankful for.

My incredible family

Running my first 5K in 2 days

Getting to see my sister after 15 months

Knowing my grandfather is not suffering

Thankful Thursday

2009-10-01T11:45:00.003-05:00

This week the thanks goes out to:

Having my first grad school test over with

Only 9 days until my first 5K (and I'm ready for it!)

Fajitas y vino este noche con amigos

My weekend beginning at 5pm

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-24T18:56:00.003-05:00

This week I am thankful for:

Running 3 miles

SCSU Farmer's Market and GIGANTIC green peppers

St. Cloud Metro Bus

A new haircut

My friend Brittany (I would have never made 3 miles without her!)

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-17T14:28:00.002-05:00

Among the things I'm continually grateful for, this Thursday the list looks something like this:

Open swim from 12-1

Grocery delivery (without a car, this is SUPER helpful)

New running shoes

My students & co-workers

The weekend starting at 4:30 this afternoon

Finally, An Update

2009-09-14T20:51:00.005-05:00

While I never updated about Thailand, I can tell you it rocked. Pictures are available through Facebook and the links below:

Bangkok

Phuket

Phi Phi Island

And now for an update on life in St. Cloud, Minnesota. First of all, it has been a bit crazy the past 6 weeks (I can't believe I've only been home 6 weeks!). When I first got home I whisked my mother away to Manitowoc, Wisconsin where we stayed at a beautiful bed & breakfast (The Westport) and enjoyed a delicious dinner at the Courthouse Pub. Days later, my family (minus my sister, whom I still haven't seen!) packed up our cars and headed to St. Cloud. We took in a few Twins v. Indians games in the process and got moved into my apartment. The day after I was all settled, I began training at St. Cloud State University (from here on out, SCSU). I was lucky enough to receive a graduate assistantship in the College ESL program. I currently teach ESL 201: Listening & Speaking for Academic Purposes. I have 11 awesome students and I'm the sole teacher of the class, I'm not a TA which is a pretty cool and rather unique experience. Life at SCSU has been made easier by having a great advisor, "boss," co-workers and some great new friends (and some old ones...yay for Cottey girls all over the world!). The first few weeks of teaching went well and I have high hopes for the remainder of the semester. The classes I'm taking are good and of course I like some more than others. I'd have to say my favorite class is Phonetics & Phonology. It's hard, but my professor is great and I seriously learn something new everyday.

In other news, I have registered for my first ever 5K!!! I'll be running in SCSU's homecoming 5K on October 10th. Thanks to Joanna, I have a running plan that I have been sticking to and I just added some swimming and weight lifting to my daily routine. In addition to crossing one of my goals off that Life Aspirations list, I'll be getting into and STAYING in shape.

In addition to Thankful Thursday posts, I hope to update more frequently as I'm finally settled and have a routine (which of course, I love). Keep an eye out for updates and hopefully I'll still be living an exciting life outside the confines of Korea (and yes, I do miss Korea. Less and less everyday, but I miss the heck out of my kids, my friends and daily adventures.)

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-11T11:21:00.002-05:00

It's a day late, but my friends and former co-workers Chris and Lauren Haws have always had a spot in their blog for Thankful Thursday and I keep meaning to do the same thing as it offers a weekly reflection on things I am thankful for. It will also allow me to make sure I have at least one post a week as I've been slacking tremendously since arriving back in the States. So of the many things I'm always grateful for, this week I'm thankful for:

3 day weekends every week

my teaching position at St. Cloud State University

my incredible family

Amtrak trains

Skype/Internet

Home

2009-08-12T10:52:00.002-05:00

I've been home a week now and will update this blog when I have time. I know I owe all my readers (there are some right?) a Thailand post and that will come in due time.

Heading to St. Cloud on Friday (for 2 Twins games first) and I start training/orientation on Monday. As of today, I am homeless upon hitting St. Cloud. Keep your fingers crossed.

Farewell Korea

2009-07-20T08:47:00.005-05:00

I've gone over what I wanted to write for a "farewell blog" time and time again, but somehow it never seems to stay with me long enough to write it down. To say Korea has been an amazing opportunity is an understatement. I'm not sure a word actually exists to describe this past year of learning, teaching and growing. It's been surreal at points, unbelievable and devastating all at the same time. My expectations have been far surpassed and my knowledge of Korea has increased by 200%. I never thought I'd be in Korea teaching English and I doubt anyone would have even expected it from me, the habitual mind changer. A year in one place and I'd have to stay? I did it! And I want to shout that from my rooftop to the city that bustles below the haze of pollution and ever present neon lights.

Still, the question remains: what do I write to sum up a year of living, teaching and learning in Korea? A list of things I'll miss? A well thought out essay style piece of blogging? Nothing? Theoretically, this should be my longest piece of blogging, a summation of a year in Korea. So here goes.

Goodbye food: kimchi, bulgogi and rice, donkas, curry and rice, mandu guk, kimchi mandu, dokkbokki, twigim, jjajagmeyon, ramyeon, kimchi jjigae, kimbap, bibimbap, samgyeopsal, omurice and so much more. Butterfinger Pancakes, On the Border and McDelivery. Goodbye shopping: COEX, Myeongdong, Dongdaemun, GMarket, Namdaemun, Yongsan (illegal DVD's!!) and subway stations. Goodbye efficent public transportation: subway (which seriously ROCKS), buses and cheap taxis. Goodbye fun stuff: affordable movies, Dr. Fish, photo booths, board game cafes, people watching at Subway, noraebang, baseball games, Hongdae and Gangnam. Goodbye cheap weekend getaways: Jinju, Jeonju, Samcheok, Busan, Damyang, Boseong, Boryeong and the DMZ. Farewell to my job: adorable children who love me unconditionally, a great boss who would help with anything, teaching and shaping young minds, crazy moments where I have to ask why I did this, funny things children say, steady and reliable income, friendly and fun co-workers, a nice place to live and a free gym. Goodbye inexpensive international travel: Japan, China and Thailand. Goodbye people: people shoving on the subway, people bumping in the street, people helping in every way they can even if they don't speak English, people bowing, people looking out for each other, people drunk in the street, people without umbrella manners, amazing bank man, people who I have grown to respect. Goodbye things I don't like: dried squid, fish flavored crackers, grubby kid hands, communication mishaps/lack of communication, surprise apartment visits, the exchange rate, yucky street smells, lack of central air and monsoon season. Goodbye convenience: transferring money via ATM, street food, ice cream in a bag, convenience stores everywhere, transportation everywhere and key less apartment entry. Farewell to things I love: my friends, cheap medications, affordable national health care, Korean food, ondol floors in the winter, my apartment, random acts of kindness, public transportation, cheap food, soju cocktails and bus travel. Goodbye to things I've grown accustom to: Korean beer, grubby kid hands, communication mishaps, soju, language barriers and overcrowding.

Monsoon

2009-07-14T06:00:00.003-05:00

I remember when my knowledge of a monsoon being heavy rain was slightly debunked as being high winds (both are characteristics of monsoons) and I recall making sure everyone around me knew this fact. Since the beginning of July, Seoul and the rest of Korea has been getting pounded with rain. Our weekend trip to Mud Fest on Daecheon Beach in Boryeong was cut short due to the rain and wind. I don't remember the last day I actually saw the sun. While it hasn't rained everyday, it has been hazy and overcast for the entirety of the month. The nice thing about the rain is that it has often brought thunder and lightning, something I missed last year around this time. However, the rain has caused all sorts of problems with the Han River (the river that cuts Seoul in half). The river has flooded in various areas and has even flooded bridges that are used to cross the river. My walk to work often leaves my shoes soaking wet and me looking a little less put together. I like the rain though, it's not as humid and it's much cooler when it rains. I've been very satisfied with my Korean weather experience.

This blog post is actually rather short and uneventful, but since the rain has become a huge part of my daily commute, I thought I'd take the time to comment on it.

손준호 (Son Junho)

2009-07-06T06:51:00.003-05:00

Since the very beginning of the new semester (back in March) I have been having a hard time dealing with Junho, one of the students in my kindergarten homeroom class. He's a very spirited kid who not only loves to be the center of attention, but when he's not, tantrums ensue. In a way, he's a bit like me as a child. However, Junho has a hard time listening to the teacher, he's constantly out of his chair and he tries (and succeeds) to get a rise out of all the other students in our class. Every day is a huge challenge and while I try not to make a big deal out of it and send a note home to his parents on a daily basis, sometimes I break and must send said notes. Normally, Junho's mother (whom I also not so fond of) writes me a message back apologizing for Junho's behavior and blaming it partly on the fact that he's a young boy. He's also an only child and this is clearly evident in Junho's behavior (I do have 2 other only children in my class and you'd never know it). Part of me, the I know all there is to know about children part (please sense the sarcasm in that statement), believes that Junho is highly babied at home and probably gets exactly what he wants when he wants. In my opinion, and the part of me that knows everything there is to know about parenting (again, sarcasm), Junho's parents are just as much as fault with his behavior as Junho is. He's used to getting everything he wants and in a class of eight and with me as a teacher, he doesn't get anything he wants and this is extremely difficult for Junho.

The point of this entry is to say that on Friday, I wrote this to his parents: Junho has been having a really hard time listening in class lately. He is constantly out of his chair, worried about the other students, rushing through his work and not focusing on what he should be doing. I know Junho is a very spirited child, but he would benefit from a bit of focus. Of course, this is not exactly what I would have written given a choice and a lack of professionalism. Today, when I walked into Universe class Junho informed me that he had a present for me. He proceeded to pull out a tin of cookies and a letter. He suggested that I share the cookies with the class (good idea as I easily could have eaten the whole tin) and that I read the note out loud to the class. I did both. Junho's letter was sincere (as sincere as a 5 year old can be) and was decorated with a very nice picture. He apologized for his behavior. Later, I was handed a note from Junho's father that also apologized for Junho's behavior and said that the note and cookies were entirely Junho's idea, that he and his wife had not told Junho to apologize but he did it on his own. This, to me, makes up for all of Junho's past behavior. It takes a socially aware child to realize that they must apologize. For Junho to apologize, he undid his only child-ness, he became selfless and apologetic. Something new for 손준호 and I only hope he will continue to grow.

Work Frustrations

2009-07-01T00:27:00.003-05:00

I think I'll start things with my favorite pastime...a countdown, or three. 17 days of teaching left, 24 days until Thailand and a mere 34 days until I touch down in America. I can't believe how fast time has flown by and how much I feel like I have accomplished, but also how much I have yet to accomplish. It's been crazy at work lately and while I didn't intend for this to be such a (probably) spiteful blog, it will almost certainly turn into that.

Let me start off by saying that overall my experience at BIS has been fabulous. I get paid on time, I live in a highly coveted location, I have a very nice apartment and I have an amazing boss who will do anything for me (and my co-workers). My students, for the most part are great and they have come a long way in the time I've taught them and I don't mind my working hours. So, what's the problem? Report cards. Seemingly pointless schedule/class changes. "Changing" the way I'm supposed to teach a certain class. Workload overload.

1. Report Cards- Yes, as a teacher in the States (which is what I aspire to be) I will have to do report cards so why am I complaining? It's the way we have to do the report cards, when I first arrived I was responsible for 5-7 classes (45 students) worth of report cards, just general commenting on their ability and possible a recap of the term. Now, I have to write report cards for 14 classes (roughly 100 students).

2. Seemingly pointless schedule/class changes-The schedule was changed due to some sort of scheduling conflict with the kids. Justified. However, what I find pointless is having us teach 6 classes in a row on Tuesday and Thursday while only having 4-5 on Monday, Wednesday, Friday when one of the T/TR classes has three yes, THREE students in it. Why couldn't they be added to one of the other T/TR classes of the same grade level? It's to challenge the students, while they aren't the same level, they are close enough and the class I teach (the same for both sections) is taught the same. Same material, same homework, same everything. I challenge both classes in the same way and I get the same results regardless of class. If this class of THREE were to be consolidated into the class of FIVE it would be a nice, well-rounded class with plenty of challenging material AND an extra break for teachers who already teach 34-35 classes a week...again, probably close to what I'd be teaching in the States, but a lot of English teachers in Korea teach anywhere from 15-25 classes and earn as much or more than I do.

3. "Changing" the way I'm supposed to teach Trophies-Trophies is a reading class with stories, vocabulary, corresponding questions and a workbook. Since I started at BIS I have conducted my Trophies classes in a manner similar to this: 2 weeks on a story (2-4 classes depending on the grade level), day 1-introduce the reading and vocab, read story in class, assign workbook pages. day 2-talk about reading, read story in class, assign workbook pages and write vocabulary sentences. day 3-spelling test on vocabulary words, story map w/ summary (to identify important parts of the story), go over Think & Respond (questions in the book) assign reading and Think & Respond questions. day 4-workbook test and assign next reading. So, today my boss came in and told me that I need to "change" my approach to Trophies because "the students will learn better Engrishee if you change the Trophies teaching." How am I supposed to change it you ask? Well, apparently I'm supposed to spend 2 weeks on a story, assign vocab sentences, give a spelling test, assign summaries, assign reading and Think & Respond questions. I suppose I can change.

As my work frustrations mount, my excitement for Thailand and home also increase. I am sooooo thankful to have this job and I didn't want to complain because as I said, it's not a bad job, but I'm burned out and that's the source of the frustration. I need a vacation. Not having a decent break since the end of December can really wear a person out. I'm sure I'll look back on this blog entry in 4 months and think, "Hey, it wasn't that bad...and you miss it."

Dog Cafe

2009-06-22T05:39:00.005-05:00

Saturday was a rainy day, so a perfect movie going/mall rat day. Ashley and went to COEX, had lunch and then saw the Brothers Bloom, which was a fantastic movie. The basic plot line is that Mark Ruffalo and Adrien Brody are brothers (the Bloom Brothers) and they run various cons and scams. The final con is supposed to target a rich young woman (Rachel Weisz), but Brody falls in love with her. I recommend the movie to anyone who likes cons/adventure/really great actors and fabulous costuming.

On Sunday, after lunch at an American style diner and a trip to the "black market" for some cold meds, we decided to head to Hongdae. Hongdae is generally a place where we head for a night out and it was incredibly strange seeing it in the light of day. Ashley had been to Bau House before and Dani and I really wanted to check it out as well. The basic concept is a cafe where people can bring their dogs (and the cafe also has 15 or so dogs) and socialize them, spend time with them while enjoying a drink from the cafe. We had to wait a bit for a table, but we were still able to pet some of the dogs. Once we got a table (complete with a sleeping dog) dogs started coming near us, jumping in our laps and generally loving us. This faded after awhile because we didn't have treats, but two very kind Korean girls let us hold their dogs! They were trying to socialize the dogs and we spent about 40 minutes with their two, tiny, freshly groomed, white dogs. They were freaking adorable and they loved us as much as we all loved the experience (and the dogs!).

Two Dozen Years

2009-06-14T07:28:00.007-05:00

Despite being slightly under the weather this past week (I have bronchitis), I was still able to celebrate my 24th birthday, not once, but twice. I am incredibly lucky to have such amazing friends and people I work with who helped me make my birthday very special. On my actual birthday (June 10), my school threw me a little birthday party, just before lunch time. After my 11:00 class, I walked into my classroom to find a "Congratulation" banner and a beautiful cake. Shortly after, all 24 kindergarteners walked in and started singing "Happy Birthday." When they were finished they presented me a book filled with birthday wishes. Later that day, I met up with Loren, Ashley and Dani at On the Border for a fantastic birthday dinner.

On Saturday, after my visit to the International Clinic in Itaewon, a step test and H1N1 test (both of which I tested negative for) I got ready and met Loren, Ashley and Dani at Mad for Garlic in Gangnam. Mad for Garlic uses loads of garlic in their array of dishes and of course this made for some tough decisions on what to order. We started with a garlic tower, which is just bread with garlic puree that they prepare at the table, delicious! Ashley and I split a Margarita pizza and a Mexican pasta. Loren opted for the calzone and Dani a mixed cheese pizza. Everything was fantastic. After dinner, we had an amazing rich chocolate cake (that Dani and Ashley bought for me) and cookies that Loren got from Costco. Dinner was not only delicious, but fun! After dinner we headed to Hongdae where we went to a noraebang and sang for 2.5 hours! After noraebang we went to a few bars, ate Burger King and finally came home around 4am! It was such a great night and I had a fabulous birthday. I am so thankful for my friends here because without them, I'd be completely miserable!

Loren caught me off guard ^.^

Dr. Fish and Baseball

2009-06-07T07:31:00.006-05:00

This weekend was quite eventful, but also very relaxed. On Saturday, I met up with Sarah and some of her co-workers in Myeongdong (the ultra hip shopping area of Seoul) and tried to find something to wear for my upcoming birthday bash. After an unsuccessful venture, we met back up with her co-workers for a little lunch and then headed to a Dr. Fish Cafe. I've been to Dr. Fish before and this time was great, but not quite as thrilling as the first trip. Still, it was a lot of fun and I really needed some sort of attention to my feet. I love wearing sandals, but they do a number on my feet. The week before Thailand will be major pedicure time! Anyway, after Dr. Fish I headed to On the Border to have dinner with Ashley and Dani. I had a birthday coupon for some free queso so it made our weekly trip a bit different and a whole lot tastier!

Saturday I met up with Sarah again and we went to TechnoMart so she could buy a camera. After a successful hunt, we headed to Jamsil Sports Complex to see the Doosan Bears take on the Lotte Giants. The game was pretty good and the Giants won 1-0. It is so interesting to attend a baseball game in Korea because while it is similar to home, it is also very different. My favorite part is the cheering. Each team has their own cheers and each player also has some form of a cheer. It's really fun and I found myself rooting for the Giants tonight. We also witnessed a proposal, she said "yes" and a portion of the 6th inning stretch (yes, I wrote that correctly) was dedicated to panning to couples in the audience and telling them to kiss on the big screen. After successful runs of male/female couples, the videographer decided to see if two males would kiss. Korea is a rather homophobic society so this was something quite extraordinary. Not only did these males kiss, they kissed twice! I'm sure they were just friends, but it sure stirred up the audience...with cheers nonetheless. Hooray for Koreans at baseball games!

Life Update

2009-05-31T23:15:00.003-05:00

I realized that my blog has tapered off in the past few months, but as my time in Korea comes to end I have found it difficult to squeeze in blog updating time. I have been in Korea for almost 11 months and I can't believe how fast the time has gone. It's incredible to think of all the things I've done, the things I've accomplished and the people I've met. However, I will not delve into those things now as I still have eight weeks left and don't plan on writing a "farewell" blog for quite sometime. The purpose of this entry is to update everyone on what I will be doing after Korea. I had thought about spending another year here, but I after much thought and consideration, I decided to apply to graduate school and try to get not only my master's, but also my teaching license. About three weeks ago, I was accepted to St. Cloud State University's MA in TESL (Teaching English as a Second Language) program. I chose to apply to this particular program because a) it's close to home b) it's rather inexpensive c) I can get an MA and a teaching license at the same time and d) I could apply and be admitted without a GRE score. I wasn't too concerned about being accepted as I did pretty well in undergrad and I have a bit of experience with the field already. What I was concerned about was the possibility of a Graduate Assistantship. The GA position is quite the jackpot. Not only would I get paid for 20 hours of work a week, but I would also have 8 of my graduate credits paid for. I received a year long position as a TA for college ESL classes and as long as my grades are good and I do a good job the first year, I can hopefully be awarded the same position next year. I have to be in St. Cloud by August 21st for orientation and classes start August 24th. It will be a whirlwind of activity before then as I settle back into the states and get adjusted to life as a college student once again.

My last day of work is July 24th and on the 25th I leave for Thailand. I will be spending 9 days between Bangkok and Phuket (with a side trip to Phi Phi Island) with my two favorite people in Korea. I'll be home August 4th and as much as I'd love to spend time with everyone I know, I will be spending time with my family and I am looking forward to every moment of it.

Bike Riding and Baseball Game

2009-05-31T07:35:00.006-05:00

Being a beautiful weekend here in Seoul, Ashley, Dani and I wanted to take advantage of it and spend a lot of time outdoors. On Saturday morning we all met at our favorite lunch spot (On the Border) and planned a stellar weekend! After lunch we headed over to Olympic Park and took advantage of the bike rentals. We decided to get a bike for 4 people and we peddled that thing around Olympic Park two times! I have been to Olympic Park before, but I have never explored it in it's entirety. I was able to see all of the gymnasiums and the swimming pool complex as well as the various statues contained within the park. Saturday is a busy day at the park and people of all ages are riding bikes, running, rollerblading and lazying about in the grass. After bike riding we laid in the talking and reading and taking in the sights of the park. Children were having exercise classes and rollerbladers were falling while a group practiced their dancing moves. As the sun began to set we headed out towards Ashley's neck of the woods in Godeok. We had a delicious Pizza Hut dinner and headed to noraebang (or singing room). Generally we seek out a noraebang after a night out and have had a few drinks, but Dani and I convinced Ashley (who isn't a huge fan of singing in front of people) that noraebang can be just as fun sober as it can after a few drinks. We had a blast singing songs together and solo and the man running the noraebang even gave us a free 30 minutes! It was quite late after we finished and we all headed our separate directions.

Sunday we decided to check out a baseball game at the Jamsil Sports Complex (where Olympic Stadium is located). I really wanted to go to an LG Twins game because I'm a Minnesota Twins fan and I thought it would be fun to cheer on the Twins in Korea too. Luckily, the Twins had a 3 game series with the KIA Tigers this weekend and we were able to catch a game. We bought tickets for a mere 6,000W and ended up having pretty good seats in the outfield, between 1st and 2nd base. Baseball games in Korea are a bit different from games at home, but the affection for baseball and the teams is very much the same. One thing that struck me as odd, right away, was the lack of a seat number on our tickets. We bought the Yellow-Green tickets which meant we could sit anywhere within the Yellow OR Green sections. We chose Green because we were able to get 3 seats together and it was nice to sit in the outfield. Another difference is the fact that you can bring in anything you want to the ballpark. People had KFC, Burger King, whole Dominos pizzas and beer and snacks purchased outside the venue. Next time I go I'm bringing a picnic lunch/dinner like most of the Koreans did. Korean baseball is very noisy and the fans cheer on their teams with chants and banging on inter tubes. Each team has different chants and seemingly, each player has some sort of chant. We didn't stay for the whole game as Dani and Ashley aren't huge baseball fans and we were getting hungry. Next time I go I'll stay the whole time as I really do miss going to baseball games. When we left the LG Twins were trailing the KIA Tigers 3 to 1 and I'm not sure who ended up winning. Overall, it was a great weekend and I crossed two things off my to do list! Tomorrow is June, can you believe it? I've been here almost 11 months!

Eye Doctor Experience

2009-05-18T02:08:00.005-05:00

This past weekend I decided to update my contact lenses as I hadn't been to the eye doctor since about September 2007. I also noticed a chunk out of my contact and a tear in the other. I decided to go to COEX because it is rather foreigner friendly and I had some other business to take care of (i.e. eat at On the Border). I chose Seokwang Optical because they didn't have tons of Gucci and Ray Ban advertisements in their store meaning they would probably be affordable. I was greeted by a very nice lady who told me an eye exam was free as long as I intended to make a purchase with them. Free? Seriously? Still skeptical, I took out my contacts and waited about 20 minutes for the doctor to check my eyes. A rather routine procedure, thankfully sans the glaucoma test. I got my contacts at a very reasonable 45,000W a box (luckily my eyes are both the same prescription). I went home after that thinking that I really wanted a new pair of glasses, mainly because my prescription was different and although I rarely wear glasses in public, I wanted the option. I was headed to see Angels and Demons so I decided to stop back in at the eye doctor to fulfill my glasses dream. First of all, the doctor who checked my eyes was probably the nicest/cutest little man ever. He didn't recognize me when I came back for glasses (I had changed my outfit and hairstyle) and was embarrassed by this so gave me a discount on the glasses. I ended up paying 100,000W for the frames and the lenses! The best deal I've ever received on my optical needs. After waiting a mere 40 minutes, I picked up my new glasses, had them fitted and received a free gift of face wash.

I highly recommend this place to anyone in Seoul if they need glasses or contact lenses. It's at COEX Mall across from Burger King and near the side entrance of Bandi and Luni's Bookstore. They have a wide selection of glasses and contacts and offer great prices.

Journey Through Beijing

2009-05-06T05:06:00.011-05:00

Thanks to the generosity of my amazing boss, our whole school got a lovely four day weekend. We asked to have this weekend because May 5th is Children's Day in Korea and as the 5th fell on a Tuesday we thought it would be nice to have the 4th off as well. Once I found out we would indeed have the weekend off, I booked my ticket to China!

On May 2nd Chris, Lauren and I set off for Beijing. We got up super early, caught a bus to the airport and landed in Beijing at 10am. After catching a bus from the airport we ended up at the Beijing Railway Station. Our hostel claimed to be within walking distance of the train station, but as we had no idea which way to head, we caught a taxi. After arriving at Saga Youth Hostel we headed towards the Forbidden City and Tiananmen Square. After quite a long walk, we stumbled upon the Forbidden City in all its massive glory. The Forbidden City is on 7,800,000 square feet of ground and has 980 surviving buildings. Needless to say, this is certainly a whole day experience. We got there around 2 and stayed until the complex closed, but we merely scratched the surface. If we had had time, I would have gone back to see what I missed because I'm positive I didn't see or experience the entire breadth of the Forbidden City. The beautiful buildings and gargantuan gates were truly a new and exciting experience. The whole time I kept thinking about what it must have been like to live within the city's walls. Incredible.

After a lengthy exploration of the Forbidden City we decided to head to Wanfujing Snack Street. I had seen this on Andrew Zimmern's Bizarre Foods and I just had to check it out. What we eventually found were grasshoppers, cicadas, mini and giant scorpions, seahorses, hearts, whole fish and starfish on skewers waiting to be someone's snack. The mini scorpions were still moving and I wouldn't doubt if the hearts were still beating. Unrecognizable meats and creepy crawlers were enough to make me shudder. I didn't try any of these delectable creatures, but I did have some sugared strawberries on a stick. These fresh, plump berries were coated with hard sugar that stuck to every tooth. The crunch on the outside and the soft berry on the inside was quite the culinary experience.

Our second day in Beijing we headed out to Olympic Park. Getting off the subway and laying eyes on the Bird's Nest and Water Cube was a bit of an emotional experience for me. I love watching the Olympics and like any other child, I always dreamed I'd be on one of the podiums receiving my Olympic medal. Seeing the sheer size of both venues was enough to make my jaw drop in awe. We opted not to pay the hefty entrance fees to go inside of the venues (50CNY for the Bird's Nest and another 20CNY for the Water Cube), but it was enough of an experience to see the outside and meander around the park. After a good 2 hours at the park we found a restaurant to eat at courtesy of my Beijing Encounter from Lonely Planet. The place wasn't quite what we expected, but after a bowl of Chinese noodles ladled with a pork chili, we didn't care anymore. The food was pretty good and all together it was a great afternoon. After we returned to the hostel we drank a few beers and headed to an acrobatics show. We got to the venue a bit early but we found an amazing street snack. A crepe filled with egg, sauces, cilantro, onions and a crunchy piece of wanton made for a very delicious, almost Mexican snack. The show itself was incredible. I don't understand how people can contort their bodies in ways to flip through hoops, move their legs fast enough to run on a barrel or even fly from pole to pole. The show blew my mind and still makes me wonder how they do it. If you are ever in Beijing, you have to see an acrobatic show.

On May 4th, I climbed the Great Wall of China at Mutianyu. First built in the mid-6th century, the Mutianyu Great Wall is older than the Badaling (the main tourist part) section of the Great Wall. I seriously can't believe I did it and I am so proud of myself for making it not only to the wall, but through a decent part of it. The climb up took about 35 minutes and then I spent another 2 hours on the wall. I walked through watch towers and up and down centuries old stairs. To me, the most incredible thing about the Great Wall is how massive it is and again, I only scratched the surface. The views of the wall, on top, were breathtaking and the whole time I thought I was dreaming. I never thought I'd be in China let alone climbing the greatest wall in the world. I'm sure a lot of the wall has been restored, but some of the stairs I climbed (ones that were so heavily trafficked that they had become smooth and part of other bricks) were most definitely original. The history surrounding the wall, the countless people who worked on it and died building it, everything about the wall is astounding. After our courageous and tiring climb, we decided to toboggan down. We were treated to lunch, through our tour we booked at the hostel, which was delicious. We had rice (of course) chicken, veggies, potatoes and all sorts of other things. It was fantastic. The 90 minute drive back to Beijing took us through some more rural areas of China and it was fun to people watch as we zipped through in out tiny bus. Once back in Beijing we took a nap and then headed to Tiananmen Square for a flag lowering ceremony. The soldiers march perfectly in step and arrive at the flag pole right at dusk. They do this every day of the year just to lower the flag. It was fun to watch and while we waited we acted like locals playing cards and eating an ice pop that tasted like a banana popsicle.

The last day in Beijing was spent at the Temple of Heaven Park and the Pearl Market. We decided to walk around the park that surrounds the Temple of Heaven and we discovered that this enormous park was filled with local flavor. People were dancing to music, playing something like hacky sack, exercising and playing music. Once inside the Temple of Heaven complex, we were greeted by a circular temple reaching toward the sky. I had read somewhere that the temple itself was held together with nothing more than braces and joints. No glue or nails were needed to construct it. I'm not sure if that's correct, but it didn't look like nails played a role. We left the complex to find a rose garden which was sadly not in full bloom, but when it is, I'm sure it's absolutely gorgeous. We also found the 100 Flower Garden that had rows upon rows of peony bushes almost ready to bloom. It would have been nice to see the flowers in bloom, but the park was gorgeous nonetheless. After the park we headed to the Pearl Market where I bought a pearl necklace for about $30. I've never owned pearls before and I have to say, I'm quite satisfied with my purchase. We left for the airport shortly after and returned to Seoul at 9:45pm.

Beijing was an incredible experience. I can't even put into words how much I enjoyed Beijing. Beijing is nothing like Seoul. Neon lights were hard to come by and the people were much different. In Seoul I am surrounded by hardworking men and women, fast paced life and soju. Beijing was more laid back (maybe because it was a holiday, I don't know), side games of mah jong and seemingly friendly conversation. I'm not really in a position to compare, but Tokyo and Seoul seem almost the same to me and Beijing is truly in its own element. I fell in love with Beijing and China while I was visiting and I can see myself coming back to experience more in the very near future.

For more pictures of my Beijing Travels click on the following links:
Forbidden City
Olympic Park
The Great Wall of China
Temple of Heaven

Staying Healthy

2009-04-28T02:46:00.004-05:00

I'm not one to be overly concerned with a flu outbreak, but as the world is becoming more and more worried, I too have been making sure I take the necessary precautions. However, I live in a country that does not believe in sick days and people go to work, school, out in public while they are sick. My kids don't miss school because they are ill, they miss if they are on vacation or busy with something else. The Korea Times reported Korea's first possible case of the swine flu earlier today. This person was on an airplane from Mexico so who knows how many people are infected. Koreans will undoubtedly begin donning the face masks, but this can only prevent them so much. Without proper hand washing (which, let me tell you, antibacterial hand soap isn't easy to come by) and other precautions the spread of disease is inevitable. I think about how many times I've taken public transportation and "high-fived" the hundreds of students I teach and I cringe knowing that I haven't been as germ-free as I generally like to be. The good news here is that I think my immune system is much better than it ever has been, but the people who have died so far aren't old people or children. I know that my students can and will come to school if they are sick, thus running the risk of infecting others. I also know that if I do get sick (with this virus or something else) I am not allowed to take the 2 sick days in my contract. It's a waiting game and we are all waiting to see if this blows over or becomes something huge. Stay healthy everyone!

Picnic in the Park

2009-04-21T18:53:00.005-05:00

On Saturday morning I met Megan and Kay for a lovely picnic at Yeouido park. Spring has sprung in Seoul and the park was blooming and blossoming with flowers and activity. We got to the park rather early, but we had decided on a breakfast picnic anyway. We found a nice grove of trees and settled in for a morning of chit chat, people watching and soaking up the sun. A lot of people were out riding bikes, walking and jogging. It was fun to watch people fall of their bikes.

Here is a picture of our early morning feast. I made banana bread and mini quiches.

Later in the day, I went to Xanadu Travel to get my visa for China. I am leaving May 2nd and returning May 5th and right now the plan is Beijing-Great Wall-Xi'an-Beijing. I might just stay in Beijing, but I'm still not sure what I want to do. Finally, I met up with Ashley for lunch at On the Border and then we headed out to Itaewon for a night out with friends and finished the evening with a batch of chocolate chip cookies at 3am.

Jeonju

2009-04-12T08:26:00.008-05:00

This weekend Ashley, Mikel, Dani and I went to Jeonju for a cultural experience. We decided to do a tour rather than venture out on our own because it was only 40,000W for the entire weekend. After a longer than expected bus ride (due to traffic) we arrived in Jeonju around noon. Let me start off by saying that this weekend was absolutely gorgeous. Clear blue skies, sunshine and temperatures in the low to mid 70s. Once we arrived we climbed a bit of a steep trail and ended up overlooking the Hannok (traditional Korean) Villages. We were greeted by beautiful cherry blossom trees and a gaggle of volunteer guides. The guides helped us through the activities of the day, shared meals with us and practiced their English. Most of them were college students, but a few elementary students joined the bunch. One girl in particular, Jenna, took a keen liking to me and we ended up being buddies by the end of the day.

After we took in the view and snapped photos of the cherry blossoms we headed to our cooking class. We learned how to make traditional Jeonju bibimbap, which is a bit different from bibimbap in other parts of Korea and Jeonju claims to be the birthplace of the mixed rice and vegetable dish. We watched our instructor first and then we had a go of it. It was quite easy, but I realized a need for better chopping skills. I never knew how labor intensive bibimbap is, but the end result is quite tasty. We had quite a good time making our dishes and enjoying the fruits of our labor. After lunch we got a glimpse at a traditional wedding ceremony and the got the chance to walk around part of the village. Once our leisure time was finished we headed to Korean etiquette class where we got to dress up in traditional Korean hanboks. We learned that you should wrap it clockwise otherwise it could mean that you are a prostitute. We also learned the correct hairstyles for married and unmarried women. After dressing, we learned the proper bowing technique while wearing a hanbok and the two different bows used. When bowing to elders a more formal bow is used, but when bowing to peers the bow is modified a bit. I found this to be very interesting, but overall, the bibimbap making experience was the best! Once dinner rolled around we were treated to bean sprout and rice soup, it was quite delicious, but not as filling as we had hoped. After dinner we settled into our rooms in a traditional Hannok Village and we had a bit of free time before the musical performance. Once night fell we were treated to traditional Korean music courtesy of stringed instruments, a flute and a beautiful vocal performance. At intermission, we had green tea, rice cakes and various Korean snacks. It was a great way to spend an evening.

Sunday was a bit shorter, but we still managed to pack a lot of things into a short amount of time. We started the morning at a wine museum and then headed to a few souvenir shops. Jeonju is famous for it's paper products and I was tempted to buy a ton of paper, but refrained. After the shops we played a few games (tossing sticks into a bucket and the hoop thing where you have to keep it going without it falling over). At 11, we were escorted to a tea tent and shown how to properly prepare tea and how to behave during a ceremony. Mikel took the lead after our hostess showed us the ropes. The tea itself was delicious, but the experience was amazing. After we had tea we made flower rice cakes. Again, we had a gracious hostess who let me turn the second batch in the pan. These cakes are made from rice powder mixed with water, to create a dough, and then they are pan fried in sunflower oil. We added fresh flowers while they were frying and then they were dipped into a simple syrup. The end result was amazing! After this we had lunch (steamed pork, rice and a million side dishes) and then a few hours of free time which we used to check out a little arts and crafts market and enjoy the afternoon sun. This experience was truly the best I've had in a long time, possibly ever. I had the chance to partake in traditional Korean culture and I have never been so amazed by the people of Korea and Korea itself. I want to learn more and I feel like my last few months here are going to be jam packed with learning and more experiences.

The DMZ

2009-04-12T07:38:00.006-05:00

A few weekends ago Lauren, Chris and I ventured to the demilitarized zone. This is the area between North and South Korea and it is heavily fortified. On the drive north barbed wire fences and camouflaged outposts lined the road. Some of the outposts were even maned with soldiers. Our first stop was the bridge at Imjingak, this is where the North returned some South Koreans and also where the families met after years of separation. At the furthest end (in South Korea) there was an altar filled with hopes, wishes and memories for those still in the North. The bridge was in the same area as a Peace Bell, a few monuments and a collection of rocks from battlefields around the world. Oddly enough, the rock from the Civil War was taken from the state of Nevada. Nevada became a state in 1864, near the end of the Civil War and as far as I know, no battles were fought there. The rocks were pretty cool though. Our second stop was the Reunification Village where we had lunch and Lauren and I got a bit adventurous as we ate tiny fish, eyes and all. After lunch we headed to the 3rd Infiltration Tunnel where we were able to trek through the long, musty tunnel. The climb up afterwards was not so fun, but it was quite interesting nonetheless. After the tunnel we headed to the Observation area where were were able to look into North Korea. We had to stand behind a line to take pictures of North Korea, but we were able to look into binoculars. Both Koreas have propaganda villages in the DMZ and North Korea flies a gigantic flag from atop their flagpole. The flag is so big and heavy that it doesn't really flap in the wind like a flag should. I heard that it cost around $100,000 to make that flag, not sure if that is correct, but I wouldn't doubt it. After the observation area we went to the Dorasan train station where trains leave weekly for Pyongyang. The station was very modern, brand new in fact, and it is the last stop in South Korea before hitting the North. We were able to stamp out passports and buy a ticket for the platform.

Changes

2009-03-26T09:11:00.000-05:00

Although not 100% official by any means and given my track record with changing my mind a million times who knows but, I am planning on coming home in August. Financially speaking, this isn't the best move I could make, but education wise, it is. I really want to go back to school and get at the very least, my teaching certificate. However, since I have found an excellent program that would allow me to obtain my license and a master's in TESL, I want to start sooner rather than later. This also means that I need to take not only my GRE, but my PRAXIS. I can take the GRE in Korea, but with work and everything, I barely have the time to write in my blog let alone study for a test that could make or break me. I can't take the PRAXIS in Korea so I'd need to come home for a bit just to take that.

Korea has taught me many things and one of those is that I REALLY want to be an ESL teacher. It is not only rewarding, but also fun and challenging. My dad always told me that I'd be a teacher, but I tried to defy that as long as I could. To some extent, I'm still trying to find something to do rather than teach. However, the more I think about my time in Korea and the other opportunities I've had for teaching, the happier I am. Education truly (and the lack there of) makes this world what it is. I am happy teaching and I can't wait to learn how to be a better teacher and I'm really excited to embark upon a new journey.

Samcheok Weekend

2009-03-22T08:57:00.003-05:00

Early morning subway thoughts: Early morning subway. Silence crossing the river. The train wobbles over the tracks. Screeching and shearing, metal on metal. Faint outlines of buildings peer out from the blanket of fog. Sun breaking on the horizon. Bright orange and yellow reflecting off the water crinkled like bed sheets.

The more I think about leaving Korea, the less stressed out I am. Money sill bothers me a bit, but I think I'll be ok as long as I start being more careful. Korea still amazes me and this weekend is living proof. Samcheok was more of a tropical paradise than I'd ever expect to find in Korea. My perception of Korea has changed drastically in the year my idea to teach here was conceived. Korea is a land of rolling hills and extremely friendly people and while I can't imagine leaving in four months, I also know that just like me, Korea will continue to persevere. This country is amazingly beautiful and all together breathtaking. This weekend I saw rugged, rocky coastlines. Blue waves out of fairy tales beating ceaselessly against coarse sandy beaches. I found a new appreciation for nature by hiking my way up a mountain, in the rain, to a gigantic cave that is literally millions of years old. It was so pristine and beautiful that I thought it was fake. Rocks forming right before me and rocks that have been around since the dinosaurs walked the Earth. Korea has been the stage of lots of firsts for me. My first cave, my first hookah bar, my first kimchi and my first time away from home longer than four months. Here I am, 23 years old living and surviving in a country where I don't speak the language and don't have a firm grasp on the customs, but I'm here learning and doing things I never imagined I would do. I am still in awe of the things I have been able to do, the people I have met and the experiences I have had. I am truly blessed.

Sometimes Korea reminds me of home. Times when I see a motel in the middle of nowhere with it's neon "Motel" sign written in English. Korea is more modern than I expected and English is almost widespread. Riding on a bus at night always makes me tear up because I know that I am en route to yet another amazing experience. Then I start to think about family, friends, life. I usually find more inspiration for writing when I'm on the go.

This weekend was amazing. We left Seoul at 7:10am on Saturday and headed to Samcheok. Once in Samcheok we decided to find a minbak (guesthouse) on the beach because it was a beautifully warm day and the beach was spectacular. After settling in and spending some time on the beach we headed to Haeshindang (commonly known as Penis Park). When we got to Haeshindang we were super hungry so we got ramen for lunch and the lady at the little store gave us some delicious kimchi and made our instant ramen for us. This park has many phallic statues that honor a woman who used to live in the fishing village. It was quite interesting to say the least. The park itself is situated on the top of a mountain that overlooks the sea, the view is breathtaking. It is worth a trip for the view if nothing else. After the park we headed back to Samcheok for dinner at Buona Pizza. It was quite delicious and followed by desert at Baskin Robbins. Later in the evening we sat on the beach with a few bottles of soju and talked for awhile. It was a great night. In the morning we asked our minbak owner to take us to Hwanseon Cave, on the other end of Samcheok. We called one of our Korean friends in Seoul to help us achieve this after the two of them talked we paid the man (who we lovingly called 'father' because he was amazing!) 30,000W to drive us. It was much farther than we expected, but he took us anyway. He even wore a suit (typical Korean man ^.^)!!! We spent a good 3 hours at the cave. We had a 1.2km climb up some pretty steep mountains, but it was a worthwhile hike when we reached the top. The cave was great and the view of the mountains, with the fog and rain, was spectacular. We had a really great time. We ended up taking a taxi back to Samcheok and eating at Buona Pizza once again then headed back to Seoul.
If you are in Seoul, buses leave Dong Seoul Bus Terminal every 40 minutes or so. It takes 3.5 hours to reach Samcheok from Seoul. Once in Samcheok, take the #24 bus to Haeshindang (you can't miss it...most people will probably get off here). This same bus will take you back into Samcheok as well. We stayed on Younghwa Beach in a minbak to the left of the bus stop...will update the information. The stop is 3 or 4 from Haeshindang.

Something New

2009-03-07T09:33:00.003-06:00

This week has been tiring, but pretty amazing. Last Friday I bid farewell to 3 of my co-workers and it was a bit sad. Working with people for 8 months in a pretty close knit community makes for fast friendships. It is always hard to say good-bye to people, but everyone has to move on at some point. If we all stayed in the same place forever life would be dull and not the adventure it is meant to be. My new co-workers are great. I feel like we have all instantly bonded with one another and I'll be honest, I was worried that things would not be as good as they had been. This week was crazy because of the adjustment period, new kindergarteners, new classes and general chaos. I do believe that the next 4 months are going to fly by incredibly fast and while I'm looking forward to also moving on, I have begun to contemplate staying with BIS for another year. I am blessed to have this job, I have a great apartment, a fantastic boss and I love my students. It'll be interesting to see (for me at least) what will happen over the next few months.

This afternoon I went with Chris and Lauren (my new co-workers, they are from Denver and just got married in October) to a meeting with our recruiters, Adventure Teaching. I was reluctant to go at first because Chris and Lauren had mentioned that it would be somewhat religion based and probably something like a bible study/group. I don't consider myself religious, but I have been thinking about things like religion for quite sometime now. However, I still didn't want to sit around and read passages and everything (my stereotype, sorry). I thought it would be what I call uber-Christian and not what I really wanted to get into. I still went though because I'll try just about anything. I was incredibly relieved when I discovered that many of the people there had the same frustrations I have about church and religion. The basis of the group was to introduce a Missio Community. I'm still in the research phases, but one of the main things about a Missio Community is community itself. Its having a group of people who will help you out, share ideas with you and just be there for you when you need it. Its about sharing our passions in life and bringing people together in various ways. I'm very excited for this new opportunity and phase of my life because like I said, I have been grappling with ideas of faith and religion. I don't want to step overboard just yet, but I do believe that God has been more prevalent in my life than I'd like to admit. This is new, uncharted territory for me and I can't wait to learn more about this and also become part of something I truly believe in.

Thoughts

2009-03-05T08:00:00.000-06:00

For quite awhile now I have been thinking my experience in Korea is more like a study abroad trip than the start of a career. Somehow, I still can't shake this feeling. While I am completely comfortable in front of a classroom and have embraced Seoul as my home, I keep waiting for a report card to show up. I spend the weekends like I would if I were in college. Usually this means going out to a bar or a club or it may entail hanging out at COEX. I'm still confused as to what all of this means.

The more I think about the time I've had in Korea, the experiences, the people I've met, the more I can see how I have grown. While I've always considered myself independent and mature, it is now more prevalent. I've gone to Japan all by myself, wandered around the metropolis that is Seoul and relied on myself to make friends (this in contrast to the "Laura Factor" at Ole Miss...she introduced me to pretty much everyone I hung out with). I don't even know where to begin start when I think back on the past 8 months (yes, it has been 8 months). I still feel like I got off the plane and while I say this over and over again, I truly discover something new everyday. Today, for example, I discovered that vegetable fried rice really doesn't contain many vegetables (meaningless discovery at best, but still).

I am thankful I have kept this blog because I think I'd forget the things that make Korea MY Korea. The little things that seem pointless in the moment, but they all combine into something wonderful. Snipets of what my students say, poorly written English signs, strange smells from the gutters and constant progress. Korea is evolving as quickly and as tirelessly as I am. One of my favorite things to do is to ride the subway at night and cross the river. The bright lights reflecting off the murky water of the Han River remind me of Christmas lights in the window and this somehow comforts me. Every time I cross the river, in the bright florescent lights of the subway car, I am home. I never thought I'd be at home in such a large city, but now I can't imagine not being around the culture, the hustle and bustle and the never ending options Seoul has to offer.

Sewing Machine and Mexican Brunch

2009-02-24T08:19:00.006-06:00

I have been meaning to post, but somehow I always get sidetracked. On Friday, I ordered a sewing machine from Gmarket because after a previous trip to the fabric market, I realized something was missing from my life. I didn't know it was sewing, but for one reason or another, I missed the hum of my mom's sewing machine and the thrill of picking out fabric for projects that may or may not be completed. After my purchase (from the English version of the Korean website) I knew I had to go back to the fabric market. On Saturday I woke up early and headed over to Dongdaemun once again. This time I really did get lost, but I found some great stuff. I got 6 different fabrics, 2 pairs of scissors, pins and thread for about 40,000W or $27. I do need some other things, and I do plan to buy them this weekend.

After the market I went to Lotteria for a quick snack and a quiet reading of the Korea Times (it reminded me of my father who every weekend heads to Hardee's for breakfast and a USA Today). I hadn't been to Korean class in quite some time so I also decided I'd go to class on Saturday. Megan and I decided to meet before class adn grab some lunch. We finally caught up (after her trip to Canada and my party which she couldn't make) over a bowl of kimchi jjigae. Class is becoming difficult because I have jumped into the level 2 class and we are conjugating verbs and stringing together sentences for conversations. All of this was of no help to me today however. I got a text message from the delivery guy saying my package was with the security guard (this too was in Korean so I had to forward it to my friend Aerin and she translated) and after work I went to pick it up. The security guard and I stared at each other for a few moments and then luckily a guy about my age walked in and I asked him if he spoke English. He spoke PERFECT English and was a great help to me. I got my package (the sewing machine!) and thanked him about 100 times. I need to learn Korean especially since I am planning on a second year here. I can't always gets lucky and have someone with perfect English to my rescue.

Sunday was an awesome day at Loren's apartment for a Mexican brunch. He had taco meat, guacamole, sour cream, cheese and tortillas. I had decided to make some Mexican rice and also made pico de gallo. It was incredibly tasty and I'd have to my favorite (Western) meal in Korea. We have decided to do fun stuff (like housewarming parties) every weekend or so. Each of us will host and we'll eat delicious food. I am so happy in Korea and I mention this quite frequently, but seriously, I have been blessed with amazing friends and great company. I honestly thought I'd come here, do my year and move on. However, I can't imagine leaving in July. I have so much more to experience and the more I think about how much I've grown, I can't wait to continue on this journey.

임주은 in the Korea Times

2009-02-17T07:02:00.005-06:00

One of my 4th grade students had an article published in the Learning Times section of the Korea Times. She wrote an article as a Junior Reporter, it's pretty cool. There are a few errors, but she did an awesome job! Since you have to have an account I have copied and pasted the article here for anyone interested. I'm pretty happy for her (Jennifer) because she's only in 4th grade and has an article in a national newspaper AND I'm her teacher!

삼릉초등학교 3학년 (5기) 임주은 (Samreung Elementary School--Lim Ju Eun)

I wanted to change into another person again, and it really came true. I was (1)an the Samreung elementary school's musical team. Everyone on our team thought it (2)was over after doing the pre-contest and the final-contest, but it wasn't. There was still the encore musical play to do. Suseo elementary school's team won (3)first place and our team won second place. The Suseo team was going to do the encore musical play, too. 500peaple were going to watch us do it again and doing it again was a gift for me.

Like always we had to practice, (4)but I had the chicken pox, so I couldn't practice with my teammates. Luckily, I recovered from the chicken pox just one day before the encore play. I Think practicing is really fun because I can prepare for the play and I can also play with other people on our team while we practice together. Singing, dancing, acting, and playing with my teammates were fun for me.

It was the day to show my best to 500 people. Before the show, there was an important thing to do. We all had to change into the characters, or no one would know what we were doing. First, we changed our clothes. We were doing the play,'The Wizard of Oz', so the lion, tin man, and the scarecrow looked really funny. After changing our clothes, we did our makeup. (5)We didn't did it. Other people who work there did the makeup for us. I was a dwarf, so I had to wear a wig, but I never wanted to! The makeup was over. I looked at the evil witch and he looked really wicked! All of us looked weird. We did rehearsal after it

(6)While doing the rehearsal, I wasn't nervous even though there were 500 seats. It was just fun. After doing the rehearsal it was already past 12o'clock, so we ate a little bit of food for lunch. We ate stuff like Kim-Bab and Man-doo. We didn't have anything to do before the play, so we just sang a song that Suseo elementary school sings at their play for fun. Their team was doing the play 'The Magic Flute'. We looked outside the window and saw the hall, but it wasn't just an empty hall. It was full of people. We opened the window just a little. Some of the people knew it and came over to see. Next, we had to go to the bathroom. We were too scared to go out, so we went out together. In the hall, I (7)was feeling like a star.

It was time to really do it. It was different than before, because we changed some things, so I had to remember some new stuff. We turned the mike on, but I wasn't nervous The play began, but I still wasn't nervous at all, even during the play! I like to stand on the stage because of this. Also I can show what I can do. Everything was going fine(8), but at last... " Oh no!" I was so tired that I forgot to wave goodbye at the end. Luckily, it wasn't too late, so I could do it just fine. Hurray! Our team did it!

The encore play ended and everyone on our team was all tired. Some boys didn't want to do it ever again, but most of us wanted to keep doing it. We weren't just going to each of our homes (9)by this. Of course, we changed our clothes and took off the wigs, but we had time to do other things. Some of our teammates wanted to see the magic show after our turn including me, so we watched it. We could see fun things for free because we were there to do the musical play. This was much better than I thought it would be, but this was not even the end.

The funniest thing came at the end : Playing! It was almost dinner time, so we ate together. After eating together, it was time to play. The girls played in the apartment playground and the boys played in the school playground. We played and did fun things in the cold weather. At the playground six of us played for a long time, but eventually we had to say bye-bye and go to each of our homes. This was the final end of the encore musical play.

My brother loved that it was over, but I wanted to continue to do it. I think it's great. I can work and practice and play with other people. I can learn cooperation, too. I can also do the things that I can do very well and enjoy (10)it. Best of all, I can be together with other people! The musical play will be one of the best memories of my life.

Fabric and Fondue

2009-02-15T17:21:00.005-06:00

On Saturday, I met Loren in Dongdaemun so we could check out a fabric market. The building the market is housed in has 5 floors of fabric (including silks and laces), bedding, ribbon and beads. Everything needed for creating clothing, quilts, crafts and jewelry. We spent about an hour and half there, but I fully intend to go back this weekend and spend a lot more time there. I found some really fun fabric I'd like to buy and possibly make a dress out of. I would really like to find a sewing machine somewhere so I can start sewing. My mother would be proud of me, but I also need to learn how to sew better so when I come home I'll need some lessons (hint, hint mom!). I ended up buying a green fabric for a table cloth and I also bought a few other things as well. My plan this weekend is to buy some beads and make some jewlery. I'd also like to buy the aforementioned fabric so I have it in case they don't have it later. After the fabric we headed our seperate ways (but not before buying some sunglasses at one of the street carts). If you are in Seoul, the fabric market is at Dongdaemun Stadium station exit #14. Walk past Miglore, Doota and over Cheonggye Stream. It is in a large building to the left of the stream.

When I came home from the market I had to start preaparing for my fondue party. I went and bought the last minute things (wine and strawberries) and then got everything set up. I ended up meeting Ashely in Jamsil for lunch at TGI Friday's and then we came back together and finished preparing. I made three different kinds of fondue including, chocolate ganache, dark chocolate peanut butter and cafe mocha. We had strawberries, oreos, bananas, pound cake, pineapple, nilla wafers, oranges and brownies for dipping. I had asked everyone to bring a bottle of wine and everyone did. We had reds, whites and pinks. Eight people (including me) showed up and later my neighbor popped in because we were being quite loud, but she was happy to hear English. All in all, it was a great time with great friends and I can't wait to host another party. After we drank all the wine and had enough chocolate, we headed to a noraebang to finish the evening. We were there for about 2 hours singing and having a great time. When we left the noraebang, snow was falling and the bright lights of the wee morning hours faded. Ashley and Mikel stayed at my apartment because it was about 5:30 when we decided to call it a night. I got about 2 hours of sleep on Saturday night, but it was incredibly worth it.

Sunday was spent having tea in Gangnam and then a lazy afternoon at COEX. I had lunch at my favorite, On the Border and then I went to see He's Just not That in to You. The movie was quite good, it followed the lives of a few couples and I love when movies have many characters. I would reccomend it and I would dare to say it's not entirely a chick flick. I hope everyone has a great week and I'm going to try to start writing more.

Seven Months!

2009-02-08T09:40:00.003-06:00

I've been in Korea for 7 months now. It has truly flown by. I have done so much, but I have a lot more to do. Although not official, or close for that matter, I am planning to stay in Korea for another year. I am hoping to get a job within the public schools here in Seoul. I am in the process of finishing my application and sending it in so I can have an interview and all that jazz. I am incredibly at peace with my decision to stay. For one, I'll be able to come home for about 6 weeks in July/August. Secondly, I have friends here who will still be here through the duration of another contract, which is quite exciting and motivating. I honestly didn't think I'd stay. I did have it in the back of my mind, but I started to miss home more and then I didn't want to stay. However, knowing that I'll have 6 weeks of home, I'll be able to do another year and finally save the money I was planning to save this year. With the economy of the world hanging by a thread, the exchange rates have been poor and I'll finally be out of debt (minus student loans of course), but my savings will be minimal. The decision to stay another year was quite easy. I'll have money in the end AND I'll still be able to travel. Currently, I am thinking about a weekend to Hong Kong and a weekend to Korea's Jeju Island. Those are two places I'd like to tackle before going home in July. As always, I will try to update more and of course keep my loyal readers updated on the new job information. Have a great week everyone!

Move and a 27th Birthday

2009-02-01T18:15:00.002-06:00

Today is the last day of Winter Intensive!! Tomorrow we will back to a normal teaching schedule which will be really nice. Only 30 hours of instruction and a few extra breaks. Good thing because this month I have a gazillion tests and report cards to prepare. It's pretty insane to think that not only have I been in Korea for (at the end of the week) 7 months, but I've also been teaching for 7 months. I have thoroughly enjoyed teaching, even with the pitfalls and bad days. I feel like I learn something new everyday. It could be something about a student or it could be material I am teaching (believe me, I have learned A LOT about American history by teaching Social Studies classes). It has been a wild, but amazing ride so far.

Anyway, on Saturday I moved out of my apartment and into a new one. It is 5 floors up and on the opposite side. I have a crappy view, the apartment building next to mine, but the place is super clean AND I was able to score some sweet wallpaper. Think orange flowers on the stems and then think 1970s. I'm only missing orange shag carpet, or better yet, olive green shag carpet. My place would be killer. I was pissed about the move, but now I'm all settled in and it's not a big deal. This place is quieter (no street noise, but louder neighbors) and darker (due to the lack of space for the sun to make an appearance). This is only bad when I don't want to wake up in the morning. It is quite conducive to sleeping in. Also on Saturday, we celebrate Loren's 27th birthday. We went to On the Border in Sinchon for dinner and then headed out in Hongdae. We had a ton of fun, mainly looking for the bar we wanted to go to (couldn't find it), but later settled on an old favorite, FF. They have live bands and then dancing. They play some pretty cool music and at one point we rocked out to the oldies. Again I met some new people who were awesome and I can't wait to hang out with them more. I am so in love with Korea and Seoul. This place is nothing like I expected and yet everything I expected and hoped for. Amazing people, food, culture and great times.

This upcoming weekend I am going to try and get some culture in. I haven't done anything cultural or artsy in awhile and I think its time to explore an art museum or re-visit a temple or two.

Weekend #1

2009-01-25T09:49:00.004-06:00

Two days into the four day weekend and it has been fabulous. On Saturday, Ashley and I met for Butterfinger Pancakes (BFP from here on out) and it was freaking fantastic. I had never been, but Loren and Ashley had been raving about it forever so it was nice to have my first BFP experience. We had to wait about 20 minutes before we were seating, but it allowed ample time to look over the array of food on offer. For starters, it is hard to find Western-style breakfast in Korea because most Koreans eat the same thing for breakfast (kimchi and rice) as they do for every other meal. The menu consisted of everything one would want/need for breakfast. All sorts of pancakes, including ginger, pumpkin, pecan pancakes and mozzarella and cream cheese pancakes. I settled for blueberry pancakes and a side of crispy hash browns. We also ended up ordering a desert pancake. Chocolate pancakes with one scoop each of vanilla ice cream and cookies and cream ice cream. The whole thing was drizzled with chocolate sauce. All in all, my first BFP experience was amazing and I will be returning. Later in the day we walked around Itaewon and then watched Burn After Reading.

Today, Ashley and I met at On the Border for lunch and were planning on seeing The Changeling, but we ended up seeing Valkyrie, which was great. I'm not a huge Tom Cruise fan and didn't really like him in this movie, but I liked the movie. I'm a sucker for World War II movies. Anyway, after the mvie it was desert time and TGI Friday's has a great brownie sundae which we split and had a cocktail. We ended the evening in Gangnam at the Rainbow Hookah Bar. This place was amazing. It's in a basement and the atmosphere was really chill. The place was straight for the 60's and had tapestry cloths and scarves hung on the wall. Ashley and I decided on cinnamon flavored hookah. We also had a few drinks and just relaxed in the amazing atmosphere. I wish I could write more about it, but I'll have to go back and take it all in again. It was just such a great day and I'm so glad that I have 2 more days for my weekend!

Grah.

2009-01-15T07:15:00.003-06:00

To add to my frustrations: I have to move out of my apartment on the 31st of January. The good news is that I'm only moving up 5 floors and over slightly. Not a big move by any means, but not one I'm entirely thrilled about. The part that pisses me off is the manner in which I was told. My director came to me on Tuesday to tell me that he was going over to my apartment at that very moment. Keep in mind I was in the process of doing laundry and that I REALLY need to clean my place. I was incredibly upset and reasonably so. Anyway, whatever. I'm moving on the 31st. I have to pack up everything, including all the stuff that was here when I moved in . Have I started? No. And I don't intend to until next week. On Saturday Loren, Ashley, Mike and I are going to Incheon to make some pottery. It should be pretty nice and a much needed stress relief. After intensive is over, I'm getting a massage.

As much as I have recently been complaining about my school, I know I could be in a much worse situation and I don't want to make my school seem horrible. In spite of all the trouble, I actually enjoy my job. It could be better, sure, but who has a job that is absolutely perfect. As far as jobs go, this one is pretty good. I'm even thinking about staying past July. I mean, I won't have to move again.

Stressful Week

2009-01-09T19:24:00.003-06:00

This week has been incredibly stressful. We started intensive which means we have to teach about 10 more classes a week while still making the same amount of money. I know I signed on for this when I signed a contract, but it really makes for a demanding, unrewarding time. The classes I was assigned are not so bad. In fact, I am teaching a novel class that I throughly enjoy. I get to read 3 novels and teach them over 7 class periods (the students have to read them too, obviously). We have read a story on Eleanor Roosevelt and will be reading Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, one of my favorite books. So some good has come of intensive. However, I am also tutoring my director's daughter and NOT being paid for it. It is kind of ridiculous, I mean this girl just talks to me to practice her speaking, but still I should be playing with kindergarteners.

I have reached a point (6 months in Korea!) where I am finding things that frustrate me about Korea or about my job. Mainly my job. For example, we get paid on the 10th of every month, but this month the 10th falls on a Saturday. One would think that we would be paid on the 9th not only because it makes sense, but because it's the nice thing to do. If the 10th were a Sunday, I could totally see why we wouldn't be paid until Monday. However, I don't get paid until the 12th now, which normally wouldn't be a big deal, but I'm broke. I got money for Christmas but I paid some bills and started taking a TEFL course. In retrospect, I could have waited to take the course and to pay my bills, so yes, I got myself into this situation. Now I'll be paid Monday, hopefully by lunch time so that I can go to the bank and transfer my money home. Otherwise I won't be able to transfer it until Tuesday at lunch which would have me on pins and needles as I have a student loan payment due the 14th. I always do this, miscalculate and end up stressing myself out. So maybe, this isn't a problem with my school, but rather a problem with myself. I suppose I could just erase my entire entry. Anyway, I'm also frustrated with the lack of communication between teachers and our principal/director. The other day I came into my classroom and there was a new teacher sitting at my desk. Not a problem if I'm told beforehand. It threw me off and I felt like I was stepping on HER toes in MY classroom. This isn't the first time that things haven't been communicated to us though and apparently I'm going to tutor another student, but I haven't been told about it except for in passing and in an "we already talked about this" kind of way. I have no problems tutoring people, but I need to know about it BEFORE it happens.

On another note...
One of my students yesterday told me that his father had died the night before. He told me he wasn't sad because he wasn't supposed to be sad.

New Year's Eve in Seoul

2008-12-31T23:46:00.003-06:00

Last night Loren, Megan and I decided to check out the New Year's Eve celebration in Jonggak. This area is pretty much downtown Seoul and the city had closed off the street and set up a big stage and were prepared to ring in the new year. Supposedly a bell is rung 33 times and many people come to listen to the bell, shoot off fireworks and engage in the festivities. Being somewhere other than my house in Wisconsin, I had to take the opportunity to do like the Koreans. By the time we got down to Jonggak we were able to grab a quick drink at the bar and then work our way to the street. We went the wrong way thinking we could get on the street that was lined with police buses and through a massive amount of people pushing and shoving. Eventually we turned around and ran the other way and got on to the street. Somehow we either missed the count down or there wasn't one. However, we also shot off fireworks and joined in the yelling and screaming and the happy new yearing. It was one of the most amazing experiences I've ever had and I can't truly explain the excitement. After Loren and I shot off our fireworks we settled near a police bus and opened up the soju. We said Happy New Year to anyone who wanted to listen and got a lot of awesome reactions. People were laughing because we were saying it, people were cheering us for our drinking of soju from the bottle and others had to do a double take. Later, we tried our luck at saying it in Korean and got buckled knees of laughter. We got our picture taken with a bunch of Koreans who talked to us about the NBA (Sister, I said my favorite team was the Grizzles!). Afterward we got some awesome street food and went to the bar for another drink before heading to Itaewon. I got home at 5:30 this morning, but it was the best New Year of my life

Tokyo: The End

2008-12-31T23:32:00.004-06:00

The last few days in Tokyo were busy, but not as busy as they could have been. A lot of things were closed that I wanted to do, the Imperial Palace Garden and an aerial view of Tokyo. However, this did allow me to walk around a few neighborhoods and take a day trip out of Tokyo. On the 29th I went to Tsujiki Fish Market with Nadja, a Swiss girl I met in the hostel. This is the largest fish market in Japan and they do billions of dollars of business everyday. It was pretty insane and very energetic. However, besides seeing a whole lot of fish, giant tuna, octopus, snapper, there isn't too much to report on. Later I had planned to go to the Tokyo Government Building for a free view of Tokyo, but they were closed until the New Year. Instead, I tried to go to Harajuku, but got on the wrong train at Shinjuku Station, which is the busiest train station in the world. So, I finally ended up walking around Shinjuku and taking in all the lights and craziness that is Tokyo.

My last day in Tokyo I went to Kamakura for the day. Kamakura is about an hour from Tokyo by train, but it is full of temples and shrines. However, it is most famous for its giant Buddha statue. I explored a few of the shrines and temples and REALLY wanted to go to the Buddha statue, but I had all sorts of difficulty getting there. It was getting late and I didn't go. However, I am planning on going back to Japan before I leave Korea because I want to see more than just Tokyo and I can try to fit it in then. Anyway, Kamakura is also on the coast and so I spent about two hours walking along the beach and sitting in the sand. It was a really nice day, about 60 degrees and the sun was shining. It was very relaxing and a great way to end my trip to Tokyo.

Here are two links to photos on Facebook. I'm too lazy to upload them to Picasa.

Tokyo: Part Ichi
Tokyo: Park Ni

Tokyo: Day with Cottey Girls

2008-12-28T07:00:00.002-06:00

Today I had to switch hostels, but still stayed in the same general area as before. However, I am now closer to a subway line that is more direct. Anyway, after waking up and getting ready I headed to Khaosan Tokyo Original Guesthouse. This place has a lot of charm and is quite nice. I`m now in a room with 7 other girls so it feels a bit Cottey-esque. Everyone seems super nice and it is so much fun to meet people from all over the world. I`m staying with a girl from Switzerland, Spain and Austrialia (that I know of, haven`t met the others.)

Anyway, today was spent is Shibuya with my Cottey friends, Sayo and Sayo. They both moved back to Japan after going to school in the states and it was super nice to see them. We had lunch together at an okonomiyaki restaurant. You get a bowl of stuff, cabbage, meat, egg and all sorts of other stuff and then you cook it on a griddle on the table. It was so good! We had a kimchi and pork one and a seafood one that included squid and shrimp. We had two others, but I can`t remember what that were. After lunch we went to the karaoke room and belted out some tunes. This karakoe room was quite similar to a noraebang in Korea, but they had WAY more songs to choose from. After that we went to a photo booth and got pictures taken and we decorated them all crazy and we each got some to take home. Then we got a soda at McDonald`s and chatted. It was time to part ways after that, but I had SO much fun with the girls. It made us all miss Cottey people a lot. However, they are both planning on visiting me in Seoul as neither of them have ever been to Korea and it is really quite cheap for them to come visit.

Later on in the evening I explored the Asakusa area once more and found a cute/cheap tempura restaurant where I had eggplant, pumpkin, string bean, lotus and mushroom tempura with rice. It was quite delicious. I`m finding it easy to spend money in Tokyo, but I am pretty sure I won`t end up blowing my budget. In fact, I`m sure I`ll have some money left over for New Year`s Eve in Seoul.

Tokyo: Arrival

2008-12-27T05:50:00.004-06:00

I`m in Tokyo right now and so far it has been quite nice. I caught a flight from Seoul at 10:20 on Friday morning and got to Tokyo about 12:30. The flight was pretty turbulent for the last 20 minutes or so and coupled with a tad too much wine on Christmas/late night/early morning, I thought I was going to be sick. Luckliy, I was fine.

After finding my way through customs and money exchange I was on a train bound for Asakusabashi station. Last night and tonight I am staying at the Khaosan Tokyo Ninja hostel and it is REALLY nice. I highly recommend it for anyone traveling to Tokyo. I`m actually staying in a room with three guys, kind of random/crazy, but perfectly fine. Anyway, yesterday I went to Sensoji Temple and walked around the grounds and the market in front of the temple. At the temple, I did what the Japanese were doing and tossed some coins in and made a wish/prayer. It seemed fitting not only because I was in Tokyo, but because the new year is quickly approaching and it is always a time for reflection and hope. After the temple I got some delicious udon, which warmed me right up. I don`t think I`ve ever actually felt the power of a warm bowl of noodles until yesterday. Since it was an early morning, I called it an early night and hung around in the hostel`s living room with random people and watched Japanese pop stars belt it out in front of a live audience.

Today I got up a little later than anticiapted, but I still managed to fit everything schedule into my day. I started at Kappabashi and the kitchenware market where plastic food is king and knives are commonplace. I bought a lovely pair of chopsticks and wandered aroubd looking at all sorts of kitchen gadgets, restaurant wares and pottery. Later, I decided to go to a clothing/shoe market and woubd up buying a new pair of shoes because my new Converse were killing my feet. I got a bice pair of Adidas tennis shoes and felt much better. Afterward, I headed to Ginza to check out the Sony Building where all the new products are on display. I never realized Sony had so many electronics! The digital cameras caught my eye as I am looking to buy a new one, but I held off. Ginza is insane. Lots of people, huge ritzy stores. Gucci, Chanel, Tiffany, Coach, Harry Winston, Apple and so many more. I checked out Coach and the Nissan showroom. I went to a 9-story stationery store and spent a good chunk of time there and bought a few things, but nothing too spectacular. Eventually I settled on an early dinner at a place Lonely Planet recommended called Zest Cantina. It is a Tex-Mex restaurant with Japanese cowboys, but the chicken in my quesadilla was undercooked. They had really good pico de gallo though. Tomorrow I`m meeting up with my friends Sayo and Sayo. We went to Cottey together and I haven`t seen them in about 5 years. It is completely insane how fast time goes by.

It`s weird being in Japan. I got here in less than two hours from a place I have lived for almost 6 months. It is completely mind blowing to me that I can be in another country in such a short amount of time. The other crazy thing is that all around me I see Asian, but they aren`t the ones I`ve been living with, they speak a different language, they have a different alphabet. I actually think I know more Japanese than Korean, but I have wanted to speak Korean in every situation. It`s one of life`s amazing experiences.

Christmas in Seoul

2008-12-24T19:45:00.004-06:00

즐거운 크리스마스!
Merry Christmas!

The lead up to Christmas here in Seoul is completely foreign to me. Which, I suppose it should be. Many people are unaware of the large Christian population here in Korea and that Christmas is celebrated here. It is not like home however. The commercialism is not as present, which is good. It keeps it more in touch with the roots of Christmas. Children, of course, are hopeful that Santa will bring them gifts, but they are less concerned with the latest toy. Many of my students wish for a new pencil case or notebook. This is not due to lack of funds, but lack of materialism as seen in the American market. The part of Seoul I live in is pretty affluent and many women carry designer handbags and wear expensive clothes, but for some reason my students are less concerned with the latest, greatest thing. They want games for their Nintendos (which many American children would desire as well), but they also are content with something they need like new socks or a pair of mittens. This is appealing to me. However, I miss the commercialism. I miss the huge displays in the stores, the special candy and a Santa around every corner. Korea has bell ringers and Christmas trees in the subway stations and many of the larger shopping areas, but they don't have overpriced, limited edition knick knacks.

While it only slightly resembles the Christmases I'm so used to, it is indeed Christmas. I awoke this morning with the same excitement I have had for the last 23 Christmases. I awoke to an alarm at 7:30 (because I had forgotten to turn it off) and tried to fall back asleep until at least 9:00. However, just knowing that I had presents to open and a family to call made me hop right out of bed. Last night I braved the crowds (and there were crowds, the most crowded I've ever seen the subway, COEX and Korea) and bought myself a few Christmas gifts. I was sad that I wouldn't have anything to open (because I'm materialistic and although I know Christmas is about the birth of Christ, I wanted presents). I came home and wrapped gifts, cleaned my apartment and got Starbucks. It was a crazy, non-traditional (to me at least) way to spend Christmas eve, but it did lend way to much anticipation for the morning.

I got up this morning, turned on the Christmas lights, called my family (who had to call me back because they were eating) and made myself breakfast. When my family called me back I promptly opened Christmas presents. I got a journal, a new case for my iPod, a couple of shirts and a pair of Converse shoes. Exactly what I wanted. Santa is so smart, but according to Norad, he thought Pyongyang, North Korea was really near Andong, South Korea. Come on Santa, that is a pretty crucial mistake. This afternoon I am headed to Caitriona and Sharon's for a Christmas party. I am making mini apple pies with mandu wrappers and apples, cinnamon and sugar. I will pan fry them. It'll be a good time with wine, food and friends. I can't think of anyway I'd rather spend my Christmas away from home.

I'm off to Tokyo tomorrow morning and I'll be back home (which I proudly call Seoul) on New Year's Eve, which I'll be spending with friends. I'm hoping for fireworks and champagne and all the things I've never had on New Year's Eve, my movie version.

Weekend Update

2008-12-14T17:47:00.004-06:00

I find myself on yet another Monday morning after a great, yet short weekend, not wanting to go to work. I like my job and once I'm there it's generally ok, but the weekends just seem so short. Whether I stay in or do things. This weekend, like most, was busy. On Saturday I met up with Megan in hopes of going to a French market, but we got lost, walked around a lot and then finally bit the bullet and took a cab to where we thought the market was. We never found the market, but instead we found a charming French district right in the middle of Gangnam. Megan found her prized Quaker Oats at a foreign goods mart and after wandering the streets we found a coffee shop called I Hate Coffee & Wine. I had a very nice cafe mocha. By the time we finished, we had to catch the subway to Korean class. I hadn't been in 4 weeks, skipped twice while my brother was here and then neglected to go two other times. I wasn't too far behind though and on Saturday we learned colors and articles of clothing. Next week we are having a party in class and then we will all go noraebang-ing. It should be fun. After class was dinner in Itaewon with Sarah, a girl we met in class. We went to Loco Loca a little Mexican/Italian wine bistro behind Itaewon station. I have been there many times before and they have good food and a great atmosphere. Saturday was also a day to support the arts. Megan, Loren, Ashley, Mike and I decided to check out The Eight: Reindeer Monologues. It wasn't as entertaining as I had hoped and quite honestly I was thankful for the wi-fi connection so I could browse the internet on my iPod.

Yesterday I decided I needed to make my apartment Christmas appropriate and decided to head to E-Mart to see what I could find. I found Christmas lights, ornaments and tinsel, plus a lot more, but settled on the lights and such. I also bought some veggies in hopes of making a chicken and rice soup. I went to a different E-Mart than the one near my house because mine used to be a Wal-Mart and for some reason or another doesn't offer the same kinds or varieties of items as the one about 20 minutes by bus from my home. Anyway, after I got home I decorate my apartment and I'm happy to say I feel more in the Christmas spirit than before. Christmas lights can do wonders to boosting morale. I chose to spend the rest of the afternoon curled up with a David Sedaris book and watching A Christmas Story. Later, I met up with Ashley and Loren and we went to Costco. I am so thankful that Loren has a membership and said I could tag along. I was able to buy chicken broth, turkey for sandwiches, black olives and sharp cheddar cheese. The cheese alone would be enough for me to get my own membership.

Only a 8 days of work left until Christmas vacation. Tuesday and Thursday are shorter teaching days now because the Kindergarteners are doing a musical for Christmas (not anything related to Christmas however) and they need extra practice. Its nice to have some down time. I can't wait to have 10 days off and then at the end of January I get a 4 day weekend because of the Lunar New Year. However, after that I won't have any relief until May where it is quite possible we will get another 4 day weekend. I'm excited to go to Japan (which I changed my plans for and am now only going to Tokyo from December 26-31) and I can't wait for Christmas. I'll be spending it with friends which will be really nice and an excellent alternative to family.

Subway Thoughts

2008-12-04T07:12:00.006-06:00

From November 28, 2008
Today is the first day it felt like fall. The leaves had already changed, but they hadn't dropped. Today as I walked to the subway, the fallen leaves whirling in the brisk wind solidified the season. As winter surely approaches, the leaves make way for snow dusted limbs. The air is crisp now and the familiar smell of decaying leaves brings comfort. Soon it will be time for the renewing capabilities of snow.

From December 7, 2008
3:30pm
The less than magical snow awakened my awareness that I am in a place unlike home. The tteokbokki stand's blue tarp stood out among the gentle snowfall. Pools of fluffy white gathered in the folds as steam rose from the myriad of foods on offer. Last night the stands lined the street and offered a semi warm have for the drunk and weary. Green bottles of soju, half full, illuminated by the soft yellow lights inside the tent. Plastic lined plates overflowing with the spicy, chewy comfort of tteokbokki. Various fried vegetables and dumplings. The savory smell of chicken and pork skewers and the repulsive, yet familiar smell of sundae.

10:09pm
Seoul never ceases to amaze me. As we walked from the subway to The Eight: Reindeer Monologues, which we couldn't see due to a reservation error, the snow started to fall. Unlike the lackluster flurried of the morning, this snow had the renewing capabilities I so desire in snow. Large flakes falling effortlessly from the sky. The walk back proved magical. Life renewed somehow and I forgot I was in Seoul. I was at home with pink snow pants and a half finished snowman. Mom waiting with Swiss Miss. Since we couldn't see the show we decided to head to Itaewon and go to The Bungalow. A tropical themed bar with sand floors and swings. The four of us shared a bottle of red wine and soaked in the smoky smell of the fireplace and the tinsel slung above the tiki bar. Again I was transported to another place. Home. In front of the fireplace, sipping on a glass of wine, waiting for a cat to jump on my lap.

For the first time in my life I got the movie moment I have always desired. Snow still falling and illuminated by the Christmas lights, a fire blazing and good company. These are the moments I have always wanted in life. The hours that last for days, the realizing that I can stay in Seoul for a long time. I find something new and inspiring every week. This week it was the Bulgarian restaurant we went to for dinner. The food was amazing. I had a simple chicken dish with a spicy tomato sauce on top and steamed vegetables (carrot, broccoli and potato). Loren had a wonderful stuffed pork loin. It had cheese, onion, some other stuff and pickles. The pickles added a great flavor. Houston had a pork and vegetable stew that was by far my favorite dish of the evening. I love living in a big city, the possibilities are truly endless.

A Whirlwind Visit

2008-11-24T04:50:00.002-06:00

This is going to be a long one, if you're brave you may even venture through the pictures on Picasa. Maybe grab yourself a cup of tea or coffee. Maybe a light snack. Don't say I didn't warn you. We will start with the arrival of the brother. He (Joseph, Joe for short) got here on the 14th and while the day was seemingly uneventful, it was a day of kimchi trying and spicy ramyeon noodle eating. Joe didn't like the kimchi, but I still attest that it was not very good kimchi to start with. I didn't even like it and I'm pretty keen on the stuff. On Saturday we filled out day with Namdaemun Market and Noryangjin Fish Market. The day turned rainy so we spent the rest of the day at COEX. I have been to Namdaemun before, but I didn't buy anything. This time I bought some things for my family and also started my Christmas shopping. We went relatively early in the morning so the market wasn't too crowded. We also opted to not eat there, which would have probably been a good idea, but at 10am we weren't ready for kimchi or various pork stews.

After we left Namdaemun we took the bus to Noryangjin Fish Market. While we had a hard time finding it at first, Joe came through and suggest we walk over the bridge. Genius idea. Noryangjin sits right beside 63 Building so we had a nice view (amid the haze and rain of the day) of that as well. The fish market is unlike anything I have ever been too. The only one I have been to is Pike Place in Seattle. Noryangjin is cluster after cluster of live fish, crabs, and octopus. Slabs of tuna are ready to be purchased and one can even buy a shark or a smiling sting ray. Plenty of unidentifiable sea creatures are on offer as well. Pick what you want and they pack it in a styrofoam box. You can even watch as they remove the scales and gut your purchase. Blood runs on the floor and while that may seem disgusting, it is also pretty cool.
After we went to Noryangjin, we came home and Joe had his first kimbap. He enjoyed that and I think it may have been his favorite food of the trip (besides something coming up a little later). The day had turned rainy and gross so we decided to finish our exploring at COEX. Later in the evening we joined Loren, Dani and Woon Ha in Itaewon.

Sunday was dubbed Palace Day. We got up early (again) and started at Changdeok Palace with a guided tour. The only way to see this palace is with a guided tour and it is supposed to be one of the better palaces to visit while in Seoul. It was very nice and the day was perfect as well. The palace itself was like many of the others I have visited, but the addition of a blue tiled building and some more intimate housing quarters was a nice move from ordinary. Also, the gardens were nicely framed by the multitude of fiery trees. I might go back in spring to see the ponds filled with lotus blossoms. However, not being one for guided tours, we ducked out early and headed to Insadong. Insadong is where you can find Korean relics and replicas of those relics and also satisfy about any kind of Korean food craving you might have. It is supposed to be more of a traditional neighborhood and the Starbucks sign was written in Hangul to reflect that. We explored Insadong for awhile, but we were getting hungry. We headed to a place I had been before and had some delicious dolsop bibimbap (hot pot rice mixture). After lunch we also had Red Mango and then headed to Gyeongbok Palace. We were able to arrive at Gyeongbok right before changing of the guard started and it was pretty cool to see that as well. All in all, it was a great day. Tons of walking, but a great way to spend a sunny Sunday.

Monday morning I had to work so I wasn't able to go with Joe anywhere. However, he took Monday off and rested and played with his new silver Nintendo DS. He almost surpassed me on Mario. Almost. He also made me dinner that night. It was incredibly awesome to come home to a prepared meal. I don't get that living alone unless I eat leftovers. Not quite the same thing. Tuesday was a work day for me as well, but Joe found his way to Techno Mart and bought an iPod nano. Not the new version, but he really likes the older model and honestly, I do too. Although the new ones are so pretty. On Wednesday Joe checked out the aquarium at COEX and he said it was pretty cool. Apparently they have a lot of different sharks and he was able to identify most of them. I've never been to the aquarium so that's something I'll have to take a gander at eventually. On Thursday he went to the Korean War Museum and had a great time as well. He loves history and all that jazz so the museum was a perfect choice for him. I kind of wish he had a blog to talk about his vacation so I could see it through his eyes too. Friday Joe came to school with me and sat in on all of my classes. I think he had fun.

Friday was also Joe's 19th birthday so we decided to go to N Seoul Tower to check out the night view of Seoul. We had a little difficulty finding the cable car place at the beginning, but once again Joe prevailed and found our way (I'm not usually bad with figuring things out, but this past week I was off my game.) The cable car ride was awesome and the view was incredible. The bathroom even has a view! We spent about 2 hours there walking around and enjoying the view. We headed to Itaewon after N Seoul Tower for dinner and drinks. It was 10pm by the time we actually got to Itaewon and we were looking to have to Thai food. I knew of a great place, but they were closing for the evening when we got there. Then we went to Hard Rock Cafe and they weren't serving food so we settled for Outback Steakhouse. I had a delicious plate of pasta primavera and a sub par strawberry margarita. It ended up being a tiring night, but we were able to catch the bus home so we didn't have to pay for a cab.

Saturday we woke up late and decided to ax a trip to the Suwon Folk Village. Instead, we explored Olympic Park and World Cup Stadium. Olympic Park is so nice and a few weeks ago it was even more gorgeous as the leaves were changing. A lot of the leaves had dropped and the grass was brown, but thankfully there is more to Olympic Park than trees and grass. The flame burns under the peace gate and the flag plaza was pretty cool. We grabbed a quick snack and warm drink at Starbucks and took the long subway ride to World Cup Stadium. Joe was more enamored by the stadium than I was, but I still found it pretty cool. They had a museum there and everything. We got to go inside of the stadium and though the playing field was roped off, Joe managed to get a foot on the playing field. After World Cup we went back to Techno Mart so Joe could buy a digital camera and I was in search of an iPod Touch. We found a few at Techno Mart, but since we have to stop at COEX on the way home we went to a# and I got a 16GB iPod Touch. I am in love with it and I'm so happy I finally bought an iPod. I now have the internet in my pocket. It's a beautiful thing.

Saturday night was Joe's last night here so we decided to have a nice dinner. Joe had wanted to try blowfish since before he came and I was not to crazy about the idea. However since Joe really wanted to try it I inquired about a place to eat from Daniel at Seoul Eats. He recommended a place in Gangnam, which thankfully is close. We couldn't find the place, but after walking around a bit we found another place. Blowfish were happily swimming in the nicest fish tanks I've ever seen. We decided this would be an adequate place to cheat death. For the first time at a restaurant in Seoul, nobody spoke English. It was ok though, I was able to communicate (minimally) and I was able to read the Korean menu. We had our own little room, just the two of us and our table of food and ondol floors. We decided on Blowfish Sashimi (복 사시미). I wasn't going to try any, but I caved. I made Joe try it first and I decided that if he didn't die I too would try some. I've never had sashimi before, but I'm really excited to try more in the near future. Anyway, the blowfish was delicious and the service at the restaurant was impeccable. Lots of banchan (side dishes) and we got blowfish soup, blowfish juk (porridge) and a desert of Asian pear. It was a fantastic dinner. Joe and I even felt a little numbness in our mouths and quite possible the arms. However, it could have been in our heads. Either way, dinner was amazing and a great way to spend the last evening together.

Joe left on Sunday and we had to get up really early to catch the bus to Incheon. We hung out at the airport before he went through security and then I took the AREX to Gimpo to catch the subway. A very convenient and cheap way to get from the airport to the subway. I'll be traveling that way when I leave for Japan next month. I'm glad Joe came to visit and we had a great time. I only wish my whole family could have come, but Joe came bearing gifts. I got some macaroni and cheese (yes, the blue box, Kraft kind), Mrs. Grass' chicken soup and Stride gum. My favorite thing from home was the quilt my mom surprised me with. She made it and it is absolutely gorgeous. I'm incredibly lucky to have such a talented mother.

Coming Soon...

2008-11-14T07:16:00.002-06:00

It's been a week, but my brother is here now and we have A LOT of exploring to do so I'm sure there will be a slew of updates this week.

Fun Conversations Today

2008-11-06T20:58:00.003-06:00

My conversation while getting kimbap today...

Me: Hello. Chamchi kimbap please.
Annette(kimbap guru): Hello. Ok. Are you democracy? (meaning democrat)
Me: Yes
A: Congratulations!
M: Thank you. I am extremely happy!!

One of my students while reading...
North America is covered with ridiculous trees. (It said deciduous, but ridiculous could work. Haha, it was funny.)

Obama!

2008-11-05T03:59:00.004-06:00

I have never been so proud to be an American. I couldn't be happier with the progress we have already achieved. It's going to be a long road, but I feel much better with Barack Obama at the helm. His acceptance speech was incredible. I don't have much to compare it with, within the scope of history, but it made me cry and it made me happy to realize that finally, someone wants America to be by the people, for the people. I do feel like we need to get back the the values and ideals on which our country was founded. It's not about parties or reputations, it's about making America a better place. Its about making sure people have a home they can pay for, a job they can earn a decent living with and its about freedom of speech and acceptance. Its about providing health care to those who need it and an education to those who want one. Its about equality. Although we took 221 years to elect someone who didn't fit the mold, 8 years to see the mistakes and desire change, it took one night to make America a place I am proud to call my home. Although I am overseas, I am looking forward to eventually coming home. I can't say I'd feel the same way if the results were different. I wouldn't be looking for a place to live outside of America, because you can't really escape America. That can be good and bad. My passport proudly announces that I am an American and today, I proudly announced it. For the first time.

Some of my favorite parts of the acceptance speech (from npr.org)
"If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer."

"...from the millions of Americans who volunteered and organized, and proved that more than two centuries later, a government of the people, by the people and for the people has not perished from this earth. This is your victory."

"The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year, or even one term, but America — I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you: We as a people will get there."

"This victory alone is not the change we seek — it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you."

"In this country, we rise or fall as one nation — as one people."

"And to all those who have wondered if America's beacon still burns as bright: Tonight, we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity and unyielding hope."

"For that is the true genius of America — that America can change. Our union can be perfected. And what we have already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow."

"This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time — to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American Dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth that out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we can't, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: Yes, we can."

Something good I read somewhere else, don't remember where: "Rosa sat so Martin could walk, Martin walked so Obama could run, Obama is running so our children can fly."

VOTE!

2008-10-30T18:40:00.002-05:00

My dad sent in my absentee ballot the other day! I encourage everyone to do the same or to physically go to the polling booth. Here are two videos for inspiration/comedic relief.

5 Friends

5 More Friends

Weekend and Me 12 Years Ago

2008-10-28T05:42:00.005-05:00

This weekend was pretty busy, but fun nonetheless. On Saturday morning I got up at 8 and took the bus to Olympic Park so I could run. It was incredibly beautiful as the leaves are in the process of changing. There were many people on the walking/running paths, but it was still very peaceful. I didn't run as much as I would have liked, but then again I only started running three weeks ago. I am planning on running a 5K in December, but on Saturday I made it (running) about 1.5K and not all at the same time. I guess I'm more out of shape than I thought. However, I did walk the other 3.5K so I would know what this is going to entail. It's only 3 miles, I've never ran that much in my life, but I am very determined to do this 5K. I wasn't going to write about it until later, but with the cold I have, I haven't ran (or is it run...this is where English confuses me too) in 3 days and I need more motivation. What better way than telling the blog world about my intent.

After my "run" I came home and got ready to meet Kristin in Itaewon so we could go to the the travel agent. We booked our tickets to Japan! I am leaving Christmas Day for Osaka/Kyoto where I'll be until the 28th. Then its on to Tokyo, meeting up with a few Cottey girls and then spending the New Year in Tokyo. I'm pretty stoked. I've wanted to go to Japan since 8th grade where I learned a lot about the culture and I even did a Powerpoint (it was BRAND new then!) on Buddhism. Oh, and I also had my first and last sushi in 8th grade. However, I am planning on venturing down the sushi road while in Japan. It would be like coming to Korea and not trying kimchi.

After the travel agent, we went to lunch at a Mexican restaurant where I had the best margarita I've ever had. Yes, mom it was better than the ones at Papitos in Oxford! Then I headed to my first Korean class. It was the last class in the series so it was review, but I am excited to go again on Saturday. I meet some really awesome people and after class we all went to dinner and the bar. I called it an early evening, but promised to hang out more this coming weekend. It had been a long, rainy Saturday.

This week has already proved challenging. However, I am learning more and more everyday about how to deal with students. My main complaints/issues are my own lack of patience. In one of my classes I have to give directions about 10 times before one of them understands. Then it is a barrage of questions they would have the answer to if they had listened the first 10 times. It's incredibly frustrating to try to talk over these little monkeys. However they are improving from when I first started teaching them. I just need to practice more patience with them and I think they will start to listen/understand more. I think they can sense my frustration and they of course feed off of it. Not that I blame them, I'm almost certain I was the same way as a child.

I have a student, in grade 4 who reminds me so much of myself at age 11 so I can sympathize with her a little. I was not the best student, not in a sense of academics, but behavior wise. I'm sure mom and dad are laughing as they read this. This little girl is an outcast in her class. She is smart (she informed me that her IQ is 155 and I don't doubt it), but incredibly strange. She has major behavior problems, i.e. she doesn't listen, she is out of her chair constantly, etc. Today I had to put her in the hall for 1 minute (because she broke the first tier of my "no Korean" rule) and she came back and sat in her chair. When class had started, I told her to sit down 3 times and told her if she got out of her chair again I would stick her in the hall for the rest of class. We had a test today so she was in her chair for a good 20 minutes. However, she got out of her chair with about 15 minutes left in class. I gave her one more warning about being in the hall until class was over and she sat back down. Two minutes later, she was out of the chair. I told her to go stand in the hall. She was fine until the Korean teacher asked her what had happened. The rest of the class and I heard an uproar of crying and dry heaving and foot stomping. Typical behavior for this girl. Anyway, after class Ms. Grace (the principal) came in to talk to me and apparently the student told her that I had said she'd only have to be in the hall for 2 minutes (which is the punishment for the second tier of my "no Korean" rule.) When I explained to Ms. Grace what had really happened, with the student still present, she went insane. Stomping her feet, crying and dry heaving. Ahhh, it was a scene. I left shortly after Ms. Grace probably said something along the lines of "why did you lie to me?" and "stop crying, you are making a scene." I don't know if Ms. Grace wanted to talk to me more, but I had to get out of there.

So, I have to learn to deal with myself from 12 years ago. This of course goes right along with my "everything happens for a reason" theory. I was a horrible child so that I would have to face horrible children and feel really bad for the way I acted. Before this student, I did feel bad, but now I am appalled by my own behavior. If any of my elementary teachers happen upon this blog, this is my formal apology. I'm surprised that none of you were driven to drink. I was a pain in the ass. Many of the other teachers wish this student were removed from the school, but I kind of hope she sticks around. To teach me and to help me learn to deal with similar students. While she isn't a pleasure to teach and makes everyone uncomfortable, I still feel bad for her. I can identify with her. It has been yet another eventful week and it is only Tuesday.

A Message to Sarah Palin

2008-10-23T09:06:00.001-05:00

Ideas, Kimchi Jjigae and Japan

2008-10-22T06:27:00.004-05:00

Lately I have been trying to think of ways to make my classes more interesting and less of a routine. As a person who enjoys a certain routine it can be difficult to break that. However, I have come up with 2 ideas that will become routine and also allow the kids to learn and have fun. The first is a word of the day. Simple right? Why didn't I think of that before? I put the word on the board, write a sentence using the word and then give them the definition. If they can correctly use it in a sentence I give them a bonus points. My points are almost as useless as those on "Who's Line is it Anyway," but the kids like the idea of points. The second thing I have come up with is a word puzzle. I remember as a kid that we had the puzzles that used words and their positions to create a saying or something. For example, M1LLION=one in a million. The student who correctly guesses the word puzzle also earns a bonus point. However, this point is actually useful as they can bank them to raise test scores. I am generally a creative person so when my lessons lack sparkle or fun, I feel like I'm not doing a very good job teaching. The problem is the attention and focus on the set curriculum whether the students are understanding or not. Sometimes we might need to take longer and make sure we understand rather than plow through a textbook. However, sometimes we don't have to take as long so it might all pan out in the end. I'm trying to be more creative and have more fun and I have some great ideas and things planned so we'll see.

This evening I had the best dinner ever! I tried kimchi jjigae (김치 찌개) for the first time and it was so delicious. Very spicy, but worth it. I didn't take a picture of my exact jjigae, but here is an idea of what it looks like.

Kimchi jjigae is a stew with kimchi, onion, pork, tofu, sliced ddak (rice cakes) and green onion in it. It is served sizzling hot with a side of rice. I didn't eat the tofu in it, not that I don't like tofu, but before I left the States I was having some allergic reactions to soy and I didn't want to take any chances. All in all, my favorite meal in Korea so far.

I have decided to go to Japan for Christmas. Right now I think I'm leaving early evening of the 25th and returning late evening of the 1st. I will be flying into Osaka and I'll be there the until the afternoon/early evening of the 26th. Then it's off to Kyoto for 2-3 days and then Tokyo for the New Year. I am planning on going with my friend Kristin and also meeting up with a few of my Japanese Cottey girls. It should be an amazing time and although I stressed (and still am stressing a little) about the cost, it's something I would regret not doing. My theory right now is that yes, a savings account with money in it is a good thing. However, experiencing the world is a better idea. I'm in Korea to have new experiences and to explore and learn about the world I live in. All the money in the world can't replace knowledge and living my life. Of course this is only a theory and when my future children ask why they don't have a college fund, I might feel differently.

Dr. Fish and Simpsons Clue

2008-10-19T06:11:00.005-05:00

This afternoon I met up with Loren and Megan in Gangnam to go to Dr. Fish. Loren and I were planning on going to Dr. Fish a few weeks back but couldn't find it in Sinchon. We lucked out today and found it and it was an experience. First of all, it's a cafe where you go and order drinks, chill and do what people do in a cafe. However, there are two shallow baths with fish swimming in them. We chose the tank with the big fish. Once you rinse your feet you put them into the baths along with hundreds of fish waiting to eat the bottoms of your feet. I guess they are a special kind of fish who apparently help people in Turkey with psorisis. Anyway, you leave your feet in the baths for about 20 minutes while fish constantly nibble. It's not really a ticklish experience, but rather the feeling of fine sandpaper lightly rubbing your feet. Here is a video I took of the fish and the cafe. It's not very good, but it's an idea of how Dr. Fish works.

After the fish nibbling, we went to Dos Tacos for some Mexican food and margaritas. I had a rather tasty chicken burrito. We sat outside and despite the constant haze over the city the past few days, it was a pretty nice day. After dinner we went shopping at Artbox where I got some new stationary and a 2009 calendar with the Korean holidays written in English. Then went to a board game cafe. We played Simpsons Clue and had a great time trying to remember the rules of Clue. Loren won the first time and Megan the last. I'm not a very good Clue player, but it was fun.

More Cute Kids

2008-10-17T20:32:00.004-05:00

Here are two more pictures of my Kindergarteners (from the BIS website). The first is from a presentation they had with their reading books. Some of them are dressed in the Korean hanbok, traditional clothing. The second picture is of Mike and Jane at their birthday party. Click on the pictures to make them bigger.

Mandu Guk (만두국)

2008-10-12T03:45:00.003-05:00

I decided to try and make some Korean food, mainly because I really wanted mandu guk (dumpling soup) and the place where I normally go is closed on Sunday. So I went to the grocery store bought some mandu and green onions (among other things I needed). I didn't have a recipe before I went to the store, but mandu guk is comprised of very simple ingredients. Traditionally mandu guk is eaten on the New Year and also during colder weather. Today was chilly and seemed a perfect start of fall dinner. Anyway, I found a very simple recipe:

1/8t. sesame oil
1/8t. soy sauce
6c. water
1 egg, mixed
2 green onions, chopped
salt and pepper
Mandu dumplings

I added sliced onion and sesame seeds (as a garnish) as well because the place I eat at has onion in their soup and tops it with sesame seeds and pepper. I omitted the gim (seaweed) because I forgot to pick it up from the grocery and 4oz of beef. Essentially you make an egg drop soup and add the mandu.

Anyway, start by heating a pot and when it's hot sautée the beef and sesame oil. Add the water and bring to a boil. Drop the dumplings in (I used 6, but you can use as many as you wish) and cook for 3-4 minutes. Add the green onions and onion. Season with salt and pepper. Cook for about a minute or until onions are soft. Spread the egg, but don't stir right away. When the egg is cooked, serve the soup in a bowl and garnish with the gim (seaweed), pepper and sesame seeds.

The soup was pretty good. Very easy. However, it needs a little bit of tweaking and I am looking for other recipes to compare and possibly change it to try again. If you are looking for something quick, easy and tasty then I would suggest trying this.

Jinju Lantern Festival

2008-10-12T01:33:00.004-05:00

Even Seoul is seemingly calm in the morning. Before the sun rises and cars and people fill the streets. The sun rising over the Han River reflects off it's calm surface. The countryside is a different calm. Clouds rolling off the hills meeting with the lifting fog from the golden rice paddies. It's hard to tell if I am trapped in a cloud or just the fog itself. The leaves are beginning to turn, faint hues of red and orange dot the hillsides. Farmers alone with their crops, I with my thoughts on this sparsely populated bus. The sun squinting my eyes illuminating the beauty of Korea.

Very early Saturday morning Megan, Loren and I got a bus bound for Jinju. Jinju is in the southeast part of Korea and the bus ride is about 4 hours. I love traveling by bus in Korea because it's cheap, relatively quick and very efficient. It also allows for views of the countryside and traditional life. We got to Jinju at 11am and walked toward the river where the Lantern Festival was taking place. We found a hotel room at the Versace Hotel and then set off to view the lanterns and find some lunch. We crossed the river on a floating bridge and found a food tent for some bibimbap and beer. A perfect lunch on the banks of the river under the clear blue sky.

Later, we wanted to check out the bullfighting and after catching a taxi and arriving at the bull ring we discovered that there would be no bullfighting on Saturday. Kind of sad, but we checked out the Jinju Fortress instead. The fortress had great views of the river and the lanterns floating on it. The day was very serene and calming and the weather was absolutely perfect. After checking out the fortress we went to a silk store to see the famous Jinju silk and then headed to MiniStop for an afternoon of soju and chatting along the roadside. Later, we took a nap and then headed to the night time festivities at the Lantern Festival.

The lanterns looked awesome lit up on the river and I wish my pictures had been better. The place was packed with people waiting for the firework show and just checking out the lanterns. All of the lanterns are made of silk and it's pretty impressive to see what people can do with a little silk and wire. We saw the Statue of Liberty, kite fliers, lotus blossoms, tigers, entire buildings made of silk. The fireworks started at 8 and lasted only about 20 minutes. However, it was possibly the best firework show I ever seen. Plus, right across the river from us, a fire broke out. It was highly entertaining. After fireworks we got samgyopsal (BBQ) and called it a night.

It was a great weekend with friends and I am so glad I have the opportunity to take weekend trips around Korea. It's so nice to get out of Seoul sometimes and breath fresh air and see how the rest of the country lives. I love it!

Here is a collage of pictures, more can be found on my Picasa page.

Quick Update

2008-10-07T09:18:00.004-05:00

Sorry for the almost week gap in blogging. It's out of sheer laziness and a great site to watch TV on. Sorry, Desperate Housewives, Brother and Sisters and Growing Pains were calling me this weekend. Anyway, it's the eve of Wednesday and my week does seem to fly by faster and faster, but still it drags on. Wednesday is my longest day, no breaks and a rambunctious group of kids. The past few days I've been so tired because I stayed up way too late over the weekend and over compensated by sleeping in. I haven't caught up yet.

I didn't do anything over the 3 day weekend. I feel a bit guilty about it, but I did have a pleasant weekend of TV watching, writing and green tea drinking. It was gorgeous this weekend so I took advantage of that by sitting on the roof and walking around the neighborhood. I could have explored some palaces and stuff, but I am waiting until my brother comes to do a whole lot more in Seoul. I kind of want to have the first hand experience along with him. However, I am planning to go to Jinju this weekend for a Lantern Festival. It should be pretty fun. It's about 4 hours from Seoul in the south eastern part of Korea.

On another note, my dad totally hooked me and my students up! I have been in the process of preparing pen pals for five of my classes and it is a lot of fun. The kids seem to be excited about the idea, but I'm not sure they quite understand the concept. Though I'm betting they will once they get their first letters. I'm putting the first batch of letters in the mail tomorrow. I feel pretty confident using the Korean post office now, after having to buy and send a box within Korea and I completed the entire transaction in Korean! Anyway, this means that people should start looking out for surprises from Korea. It saddens me that I have yet to find adequate post cards, but I'm on the look out and maybe this weekend I'll find some.

Also, I am hoping to go on a day trip to seem some autumn foliage, explore a cave and take a ferry ride toward the end of the month. It's a good deal and I will need to see some colorful trees or I might go crazy. The leaves that Seoul has to offer are slowly changing and if they hadn't pruned all the trees on the street by my apartment, I would be able to see the gorgeous colors from my window. However, Seoul does have it's fair share of parks, including Olympic Park. I have been meaning to go there for quite some time and I think this month might be good.

New Schedule, 3 Day Weekend

2008-09-30T10:49:00.005-05:00

My schedule has been completely changed as of tomorrow. I will no longer be teaching Science. I only had one class before, but I really liked my Science class. I got Language added to my arsenal. Thanks. I'm not much of a fan of the semantics and technicalities of language. I learned more English grammar because of Spanish class than I ever learned in an English class. Anyway, my Tuesday/Thursday schedule remains the same. The nice thing is that I now have a prep period everyday but Wednesday. I have two on Tuesday to make up for that though. The reason we are switching the schedule is because BIS hired a new teacher because our grade 2 classes are getting too big and too crazy. The new teacher will only be part-time and work Monday, Wednesday, Friday and is taking some of my most hated and most beloved classes. However, all the current teachers are dealing with the same situation. I had also planned two of the classes I lost until December so it kind of makes me feel like my work was useless. I have however designed and new lesson plan sheet which is much more efficient and visual than before.

Other than that, nothing else in the way of news. We have a three day weekend coming up because of National Foundation Day on Friday. It'll be nice to have a 3 day weekend, but other than dinner with friends on Thursday night, I don't have much planned. Maybe the HiSeoul festival, maybe palace tours, maybe a walk through Olympic Park. Perhaps swimming laps in the Olympic pool or checking out the shooting range? Who knows, but I am looking forward to a relaxing weekend and the weather looks promising thus far for a relaxing, outdoor weekend.

Noraebang

2008-09-28T06:31:00.000-05:00

Last night was another Spanish meetup and some new people were there, which was really nice. We went to a restaurant in Sinchon that had separate conference style rooms that you can rent out, have some food, drinks and a meeting all at the same time. It was pretty kitschy, but fun. After dinner, a group of us headed to Hongdae for some dancing. On the way to the bar, Tinpin, we encountered a stand where a woman was selling cocktails in a bag. It was like a Capri Sun, but for adults and at 3,000W a pop, hard to pass up. After we hung out at Tinpin for a bit we decided to head to a noraebang. A noraebang is a karaoke room people can rent out with their friends and you can sing to your heart's content. They have a ton of songs in English, including recent hits and old ones too. I sang a lot of songs! Loren and I belted out, "Hey Jude," Megan and I sang "Goodbye Earl" and "Girls Just Want to Have Fun." I decided to solo on "Mmmbop" and "Don't Bring Me Down." It was so much fun! Afterward we hit up the street food where I tried tteokbokki for the first time, it was very spicy, but incredibly tasty.

Picnic, 6am and Crying Kids

2008-09-23T09:11:00.007-05:00

Last Sunday, after a super crazy Friday/Saturday, Loren and I had a picnic lunch by the Han River. It was a gorgeous day, it was pretty warm but a great day nonetheless. After lunch of ramyeon (라면), kimchi and kimbap we walked along the river and eventually found a deserted area by the National Assembly Building. It was a perfect day to walk around a part of Seoul I hadn't really explored yet. After we walked our way through the National Assembly complex, we went to a small park where people were riding bikes, roller blading and enjoying a Sunday afternoon stroll. It was a peaceful way to end a crazy, yet fun weekend.

My weekend, as mentioned above was crazy. I met up with Loren and his visiting friends in Itaweon. Itaewon is the foreign part of Seoul, where it feels like you are walking into America. I kid you not, English is heard everywhere and there are a ton of foreigners. I had been trying to avoid Itaewon, but in the past week I had gone 3 times (once for dinner/drinks with Loren, dinner with Kristen and then out on the town with Loren, Colin, Jesse, Sandra and Woon Ha). Anyway, Friday night I met up with everyone and we went to a few bars, had a few drinks and it was 3:00 before I knew it. However, the night didn't end there. Sandra and I decided to head to Gangnam (where I live, sort of) and go to this huge club, NB (Noise Basement). There were a gazillion people there and it was incredibly hot, but the DJ was awesome and I danced more than I think I have in my entire life. We finally parted ways at about 6am! I'm not sure I've ever been out that late before, but it was fun. I didn't wake up until 4p on Saturday!

This week is going quickly, it is almost Wednesday here and I am tired already. The kids seem to be on sugar highs 24/7 and they have decided not to listen anymore. I've sent more kids out in the past few days than I have in almost 2.5 months. Today a little girl broke down in tears when I sent her out for cheating. It was a spelling test that has absolutely no effect on her grade and she was cheating. She is new to the class, but seriously why must an 11 year old cheat on a spelling test? She was bawling and I didn't feel bad. I shouldn't either, she should have thought about getting a 0 and her mom getting mad before she decided to cheat. I'm not perfect by any means and I probably did far worse at age 11, but still. It's not my fault she made a poor decision. Other than that, my previously "worst" kindergarten class is becoming my favorite. Ever since I started teaching them reading 3 days a week they have become much better. They still struggle with reading (especially the two boys, Danny and Mike for those of you who have seen the picture), but they try hard. I've never had to teach anyone to read before, but it's hard work. In a way, it's my favorite though. Progress is easily tracked when someone is learning to read. The kids have a field trip on Friday so I have the morning off, that'll be nice. October 3rd is a holiday so that means one more 3 day weekend!

My thoughts on American Politics...

2008-09-20T08:55:00.005-05:00

I thought I'd take a brief moment to discuss American politics. First off, I am very happy that I am half a world away from the debacle that is known as American politics. To me, politics have generally, and will always be, a popularity contest. Not the same type of popularity contest that exists in high school or even college because clearly nobody cares who the smartest, best looking person is. Which in a way is good, but also bad. The issues one faces while the president of student council are far less appealing nor important as one faces while the President of a country. I don't think deciding on prom decorations or service projects rank too high on the list of a country. A President must deal with the failing economy, endless and unnecessary wars and a slew of other problems, including health care and education. I know I mentioned that being the smartest doesn't matter, but I'm not sure I could back someone who finished near the bottom of their class. At the same time, it doesn't matter where one went to college. Prestigious Ivy League or not, the name of a school on a resume doesn't necessarily mean one is qualified for a job. Unless it's Hamburger University and you wish to manage a McDonald's.

Another thing that shouldn't matter is experience. In the case of the President of the United States, experience in politics or foreign policy may actually be a bad thing. Look where "experience" has gotten us in the last eight years. America needs someone with a new look on things, a new agenda. We need to start over. A myriad of problems exist within our 50 states, but we are so focused on other things, in other countries. Obviously we need to be aware of potential threats and what is happening around the world, but we also need to focus on our people. I think we need someone who can bring America back to it's people and start helping the world instead of trying to impose our ideals upon it. We need to be more globally aware, but sometimes we need to see America for what it really is. Education is failing in rural areas because jobs are being lost, whole cities are shutting down because of shifting economic priorities and large corporations need to be bailed out by the Federal Reserve. I would be the first person to tell you that I want to change the world and I want to help as many people as I can, but what if America becomes one of the countries we hear about on TV all the time. The countries without clean water, basic daily needs. This already occurs in many places throughout the country. However, we can't do anything or expect help when we are so self-centered. When did America stop being "For the people, by the people" and start being "four people, how can we buy people?"

Living abroad has made me more aware of America's perception to the world. We aren't as popular as many of us believe. America isn't the greatest or grandest country in the world, nor do we need to be. We just need to be a country that we started out to be. Opening our arms to people looking for a better life, working together to form a more perfect union. It seems that we have lost our way over the last several hundred years. I know that the world changes and I am thankful for that. I am also thankful for the way America has changed, but we still have a lot more changing to do. We can't go back, but why stay in a rut?

They look so cute...

2008-09-20T08:04:00.005-05:00

Just a few of the kindergarteners at the park last week (click it to make it bigger). I'm not sure what they are doing, but I found this on my school's website and had to share with everyone.
Dylan, Mike, Rachel
Jessie, Lauren, David
Claire, Isabelle, Danny, Analise

Just in case you missed it...

2008-09-17T07:00:00.004-05:00

I just watched, and re-watched (4 times) the Tina Fey as Sarah Palin SNL skit. I love it.

And my favorite (relatively recent) Weekend Update with Tina Fey. Bitch is the New Black.

Chuseok

2008-09-12T09:00:00.005-05:00

This weekend is Chuseok (추석), or what most Americans refer to as Korean Thanksgiving. However, Chuseok is a time when Koreans go back to their hometowns to pay respect to ancestors and take care of their burial sites and offer them the harvest. It seems really interesting to me and while I was in Damyang and Boseong last weekend I saw my share of burial sites. All of my students were revved up yesterday and today in anticipation of a three (or more) day weekend. Yesterday I recieved a case of SPAM from my school as a Chuseok gift. Its the thought that counts right? Koreans have a special place in their hearts for SPAM as it seems to fly off the shelves and I've seen many a Korean with an identical case in their hands. I've thought about carrying a can or two with me at all times in case I run into a homeless person. I've never eaten the stuff, but I don't really feel like trying it now, I mean Korea has so much more to offer than SPAM (but it is in budae jjigae and I'm sure on some toasts and who knows what else). Today I got even more gifts. Right away this morning one of the Kindergarteners (Jessica) gave me a present (which later revealed chopsticks and a spoon) that said, "I <3 you to Refsland from Jessica." I also got honey rice cakes, songpyeon (송편), the traditional rice cake of Chuseok, a box of muffin like cakes from another student (Dayna) and a piece of potato pizza from Mr. Pizza (surprisingly delicious by the way). The best gift of all is a three day weekend though.

After work I went to COEX because I wanted to buy a Korean book from Bandi & Lunis. I found the one I was looking for and I think it will help me learn Korean and I am going to devote at least 45 minutes a day to the book and it's accompanying CD. The book is in a series and once I finish one, I'll move on. Part of me is afraid to learn Korean because I don't want to lose my Spanish, but at the same time, I have been reading Spanish newspapers online and I frequently talk to myself in Spanish. I should be ok and with Spanish group once a month I should be able to retain the majority of my Spanish, I've gone longer than a year or two before.

Tomorrow I am planning on meeting up with some people from a "New in Town" group to go on a cruise of the Han River at night and then out to dinner afterward. I think this will be fun and a river cruise has been on my list since I arrived in Seoul. It will also be good to meet some more people.

Damyang and Boseong

2008-09-08T05:37:00.012-05:00

This past weekend I went to Damyang and Boseong with four other people. Two of the people, Kristin and Loren, I had met at the Spanish group two weeks ago. We were met in Damyang by Nate and Courtney, whom I had never met but they were awesome company. At 9:00 on Saturday morning Loren, Kristin and I got on a bus headed for Gwangju, the capital of Jeollanam-do province. We didn't spend much time in Gwangju because we were headed for Damyang and the bamboo forest. When we got to Damyang we found a place to stay for the night, left our backpacks and headed for the forest. It was a gorgeous day, nice weather and the bamboo forest was incredible. It was so nice to see nature again, we saw banana spiders all over and trees and amazing views of the surrounding mountains. After wandering around the forest for awhile it was time for some food and we had read about a place that served daetongbap (see left), rice cooked inside of a hollow bamboo stem and the rice takes on the subtle flavor of bamboo. It was very good and served with about 10 different banchan or side dishes. The lunch was very good and afterward we decided to walk around by the river and we found a serene sculpture park with frogs and flowers and people reading in a little pagoda-esque gazebo. I would have loved to curl up with my latest read (Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris), but I didn't have it with me and time didn't necessarily allow. The walk along the river became a peaceful stroll and it sparkled in the diminishing sunlight. We found a place to walk across the river on stones and saw a white heron (maybe a crane) and some geese or swans of some sort and it became apparent to me that Korea is a beautiful country. Outside of the hustle and bustle of Seoul lies an abundant source of traditional Korea, an untouched mecca of language, food and housing. No sky high towers or foreigners (I believe we were the only 5 in town that night) and a sense of the way things used to be and will always be.

After our river walk, we headed back to our love motel (don't worry, it's not as sketchy as it sounds) and chilled for a little while before deciding on dinner. We decided to have samgyopsal (삼겹살), a thick cut pork, not unlike bacon, that you grill right at the table along with garlic, mushrooms, onions and shrimp (I've been told shrimp isn't necessarily the norm). We also threw some kimchi (김치) on the grill. After it's all cooked the pork is placed in lettuce and all the grill stuff is added plus spicy bean paste and an array of other things. Each wrap can be the same or different. I opted for the different option, but it was very tasty and the first time I've had bacon in probably 18 years, I have been missing out. To top the meal off we also had bamboo soju to commemorate the bamboo forest and when that went dry we had normal soju.

On Sunday, we went boarded a bus to Boseong where the green tea plantations are. The drive there was as gorgeous as I had hoped. Winding roads through rural areas, shallow river beds and sun soaked farms. Everything was so green and fresh and the random chilies drying in the middle of the road made for interesting attractions. Boseong itself was marvelous. The green tea fields were high up on the side of the mountain and the trek was well worth the final result. The view was amazing and it smelled wonderful. I took many pictures, but none of them can do an actual trip any justice. It was an amazing sight. The fields themselves were flanked by Cyprus trees and what I believe were bonsai trees. The whole atmosphere was peaceful and we topped it off with a lunch of bibimbap (비빔밥) with green tea rice (nokcha bibimbap). After a day of bus trips and green tea amazement, it was time to board one more bus back to Gwangju and then another back to Seoul.

I think I could have stayed in Boseong for a few weeks, maybe a few months, but not permanently. As much as I love nature and a great view and amazing experiences, I have grown quite fond of Seoul. I proudly call my apartment home and I see Seoul as my city. Whether in my neighborhood or traveling around, Seoul is an adventure waiting to happen. The weekend trip was nice, to be free of smog and thousands of cars and funky smells made me appreciate the beauty of this country and the world, which is exactly why I embarked upon this journey in the first place. People are simple outside of Seoul, English isn't spoken in the small towns, but we ran into plenty of kind, Korean people who helped us find our way. Hand gestures and body language spoke volumes this weekend and a simple smile can go a long way. I am falling in love with this country more and more everyday and now I know why Korea is truly sparkling.

Weekend and Holiday Plans

2008-09-01T06:25:00.009-05:00

This weekend was pretty awesome. I met up with a few people from the Spanish group from the previous weekend and we checked out a Latin American art exhibit at Deoksugung Palace. The exhibit was awesome. Pretty small collection, but it showcased some of Frida Kahlo's early works and a few Diego Rivera's. Some of my favorite works were from Fernando Botero and Wifredo Lam. After seeing this collection I wanted to hop on a plane to Argentina (where most of the collection hailed from). I will be going back there at least once more before it leaves in November.
The palace itself was small and relatively untouched. The colors were faded, but I liked that. It showed the palace as it should be after thousands of years. The area surrounding the palace is City Hall and the location of the beef protests right before I arrived in Seoul. It also where I happened upon the Chili Festival two weekends ago. It is quite beautiful and a 15 minute walk down the street lands you at Gyeonbokgung Palace and the area surrounding Cheonggye Stream.

We found a place for lunch and I had the best bibimbap ever! It was a cheese, vegetable and meat deal that tasted very similar to Mexican food. It was fantastic. The place was aptly named Bibimbap and I wish I remembered how to get there from the subway, but I know I could get there if I walk around again.

On the way home, on the subway, a group of school girls got on. After they talked to the most adorable baby they said hello to me and asked if they could talk with me. Of course I said yes and they asked me bunch of questions and I them and we had a short little conversation in English. The girl who did the most talking (while her friends giggled) even thanked me for letting her talk to me. Just another day in Korea.

After I got back from the exhibit, I chilled for a bit and then I went to COEX to meet up with another friend from Spanish group. We ate dinner at On the Border so I got yet another Spanish food fix. This time I had a chicken taco, rice, black beans and 2 cheese and chicken empanadas, and a margarita of course. No pictures of that, but it was pretty tasty, a bit more expensive than Korean food, but I suppose its ok to eat Western once every 2 months (not including McDonald's, I consider that global food...haha). Anyway, I didn't do much on Sunday besides go to the gym for the first time and it was awesome! I went again tonight after work and I am going to make this part of my daily routine. Tonight after working out I went to the restaurant in the bottom of my building for madu rameyon (ramen noodles with madu dumplings) it was pretty tasty. I mean I know I love mandu and rameyon is delicious as well so put the two together and you've got a winning combination.

In other news, I think I have my Christmas holiday plans all figured out. I just need to check on a few things and buy tickets/make a lodging reservation. Otherwise its looking like Indonesia, a few days with Molly who is teaching in Bandung and then a few days on my own on the beaches of Bali. I had thought about Beijing, but the tourist visa stuff is more of a hassle than I want to deal with right now and it's cheaper to do one country. I will make it to Beijing (and other parts of China) before I leave Korea, but the more I thought about a Christmas/New Year's vacation the more I wanted to be warm and it'll be about the same temperature in Beijing as Seoul. Right now I would be happy with cold, but come December, I'll probably want a break and a tan.

Random

2008-08-27T05:29:00.008-05:00

I can't believe it's Wednesday night already, this week has gone by quickly. Last Saturday I met up with some people for a Spanish group and while I didn't speak nearly enough Spanish, I met some really cool people. In fact, this coming Saturday I will be going to a Latin American art exhibit with a few of them. I'm pretty excited about that.

As many of you may know, I have healthy obsession/addiction to gum. I have been an avid gum chewer since 2003 and I show no signs of stopping. Until now. I came to Korea with a box of Stride gum from Sam's Club and I have one piece left. A whole box lasting almost 2 months is a HUGE accomplishment for me, I have cut down considerably. However, with one piece left I have to find a Korean gum to chew. Today I bought my first pack of gum and while it holds it flavor for quite some time, the taste resembles that of a mentholated cough drop (the Halls kind). It's not unbearable and maybe if I have a sore throat or a cough it will be suppressed by a single inhale. I miss my Stride already, but my brother is coming in November and he knows to bring me a box of gum.

While sitting down to my usual bowl of mandu guk yesterday, I encountered a man who spoke to me in English. Something was on TV about Cambodia and he was translating for me and then he told me the history behind my mandu guk. Thanks. Anyway, he also mentioned that the area I live in is really nice, things are close and also that there are many gyms near us. Normally, I wouldn't think anything of it, but since he is the 5th Korean to tell me about the proximity of gyms in my area I began to think. My students have no problem pointing out that I am not of normal Korean stature (i.e. I'm fat), but maybe the adults while thinking the same thing like to point out that I can work out. It's pretty subtle, when only a few people tell you that, but once the number starts to increase it's a hidden message. Anyway, I know I have a free gym in the basement and I do plan to use it. However, I am lazy and I have no problem admitting that, but I do want to start working out again, not to quell the snickers or the comments, but so I can be fit and healthy. I don't mind how I look right now so I figure I should just get in and stay in shape.

On another food note, I tried kimchi bokkumbap (kimchi fried rice) the other night and it is the spiciest thing I have eaten so far. It was delicious, but like I said, spicy. I think by the time I leave Korea I'll be a pro at eating spicy food.

Thoughts

2008-08-22T11:54:00.005-05:00

I've been reading a few things about North and South Korea and also Korea's image to the rest of the world. I find it very interesting because I don't know a whole lot about either topic. Although I currently live in South Korea I'm still unaware of many of the things happening around here. Not to mention my lack of knowledge of Korean history. I can remember sitting in a class during middle or high school and learning about the Korean War and the dividing of the country, but I couldn't even come close to locating Korea on a map (and I always confused Korea for Vietnam, thinking there were rampant jungles and giant mosquitoes). I can find Korea now, but up until the beginning of the year I would have had some trouble.

I read an article, as mentioned before, about Korea's Image to Outside World and the overwhelming consensus was that most people didn't know anything about Korea. It wasn't just Americans, but Canadians, Australians and Japanese. I wonder if it is a lack of education on the part of these countries or a lack of information provided by Korea itself. I know Korea had been shut off, but in the last 50 years or so Korea has risen to a powerful nation, 11th in GDP. Why so little knowledge? I knew more about North Korea than South Korea before I came here, bad things of course, but now I've learned that it is gorgeous and the natural beauty is astounding. It's a shame that nobody can experience the North, but of course this makes me want to go more than ever. I wonder if it is up to the nation to educate the world or if the world should inquire. Obviously what we know about North Korea is information provided by someone else because I doubt they would advocate the negative aspects. I think we need to meet each other half way, maybe the world would be a better place with a little more education.

According to another article, this year at the Olympics the North and South marched in separately unlike the past were they would come in together under a unity flag. People are concerned that this means unification is farther from reach. Also, the two Korean leaders exchanged handshakes, no words or smiles and basically refused to sit at the same table. However, on a positive note, another article mentioned that North Korea should try to adopt China's method of capitalism under communism in order to become a more successful nation. The paper here normally has mention of plans for unification, but obviously this is a long way off and would take a lot of work. But it could happen.

Part of the reason I chose Korea was because I too knew nothing about it. I was intrigued by the mystery of a split nation, the history and the culture. I think one of the reason we have hate and injustice is because we don't know anything about our fellow world citizens. Just today my grade 2 class told me they don't like black people, I can't help but wonder if it is because they have never been exposed or if someone or something is telling them to not like blacks. I was astounded, but at the same time interested in finding out about where this started. It's hard for me to understand why someone wouldn't like someone else because of the color of their skin or something else (I've always had trouble with this). Sure there are people I dislike, but more often than not it is because I find them annoying. I just wish we could all truly find it in our hearts to forgive and move on, stop war and petty fighting and embrace the lives we were given. Take a note from the Discovery Channel, the world is just awesome, but how are we supposed to enjoy it if we keep blowing things up and killing each other.

Sorry if this is a bit discombobulated, it's 2:30am!

US Beef, Loca and Puppies

2008-08-21T07:23:00.004-05:00

As a lot of people are aware, Korea has been caught up in anti-US beef protesting. Honestly, it doesn't bother me, the US exports beef elsewhere and if Korea doesn't want it because of Mad Cow Disease, thats fine by me. However, when an 8 year-old tried to tell me that the beef was ok, but in 20 years she would lose her mind it made me laugh and also a bit upset. I don't really know too much about the controversy and because I don't eat red meat it hasn't effected me in anyway. I know it has something to do with a bad cow awhile back and the president saying that they would not import US beef anymore. Like I said, I don't know much or even if what I know is true and to be perfectly honest, I don't want to spend time researching it as it has very little interest to me. The little girl who was adamant about "going crazy after eating cows from America," made me more patriotic than I have ever been. Of course I had to try to defend US beef and tell her she would not go crazy or die if she ate US beef, I assured her that Americans eat their own beef and are perfectly fine. I can't believe I had to defend America (myself) to an 8 year old!

I did redeem my uber-patriotic self an hour later by proclaiming that I would love to tell George W to shut up. This was after a 9 year old told me he wanted to tell Lee Myung-bak to shut up so I felt justified. It's no secret that I am not a fan of George W and this particular little boy likes to remind me how much he dislikes the American president, as you can tell, this student has a piece of my heart (he actually is one of my favorites). His class likes to call me Molly-loca after I told him one of my other students gave me that nickname. However, when the name was coined the student was unaware that "loca" is "crazy" in Spanish, but after telling him he was more than thrilled that he called me crazy. They also know that I worked at McDonald's and they love hearing stories and telling me how much they love McDonald's, "way more than Burger King."

I really like teaching the 2nd and 3rd graders, they are so fun and they know enough English that I can make jokes and they laugh. The kindergarteners don't quite understand jokes or sarcasm so it is a challenge to make them not feel bored in class, but then again, they run around and talk in Korean 30 of the 40 minutes I have them. Luckily they are cute or I'd probably be bald from all the hair pulling. Today, the newest kindergarteners (Earth Class) decided to be puppies in class and one of the girls was the master. Normally this would be annoying, but today we were learning the difference between give/gave and get/got so I just kept telling the "puppies" to give me their bones (pencils) and then they "barked" "I gave teacher my bone." The get and got was easy too because I made them get things from their cubbies and then I'd say "you got the (insert item here), thank you." Sometimes I have to improvise on the spot, but I actually find that those days are more effective for teaching and learning because it's like I'm making up a game as I go and all the kids love games.

Sometimes I see shirts with English on them and have to shake my head because I don't think people know what they actually say. One of my students had a shirt on today with an orange on the front and it said "Fresh B.S." on it. I have no idea if the B.S. was supposed to stand for what I figured it to stand for, but it made me laugh and all the other teachers as well. And I leave you with this, an Olympic cartoon portraying obesity in America from the Korea Times.

Busan

2008-08-17T03:10:00.010-05:00

I'm back from Busan and I had a great weekend. When I got into Busan I had to find a place to stay, after checking a backpackers hotel I was informed that I probably won't find any hostels with vacancy because of the holiday weekend. So instead of riding the subway forever, I called the places in my Lonely Planet. I found a place right next to the train station for 40,000W a night. A bit more than I wanted to spend, but still way cheaper than most places and I had my own bathroom. I was far from the beach, but that wasn't a big deal, it still only took about 45 minutes by subway. The hotel was nice, had a coffee shop on the first floor, the staff spoke
English and were helpful with any questions. Also, it was nice being able to sleep until 10:30 and still catch the train this morning. After I settled into the hotel I decided to head to Gwangalli beach to take in the sights and sounds of coastal Busan. This beach is not nearly as crowded as Haeundae beach, but there were still a lot of people on the beach and in th water. I stayed there until nightfall because Lonely Planet said it sparkled at night when all the buildings were lit up and the concrete diminished.
On Saturday I decided to check out Beomeosa Temple. I had to ride the subway for an hour and then catch a bus to the top of the mountain. The view was absolutely gorgeous. When the bus got the the top I still had a climb ahead of me and my new Birkenstocks weren't the best shoes to be wearing. The climb was magnificent, I could hear the stream roaring down the mountain and birds chirping. It was probably the most peaceful thing I have ever experienced. The temple itself was beautiful, pretty much un-restored and left to its natural beauty. A lot of the buildings housed Buddha statues, candles lit up the rooms and it was intriguing to watch the men and women kneeling and bowing before the golden statues. I wanted to take a picture, but out of respect, I refrained. However, I did take multiple pictures of the temple and the surroundings.

I also went to Haeundae beach on Saturday. This place was filled with people. It is apparently Korea's number one beach, but with all the people I don't know how it could even come close to being relaxing. I opted to walk around for a bit and take pictures. I found a market and I bought some rather disgusting corn on the cob and a surprisingly delicious pork skewer from a street stall. I saw all sorts of sea creatures for sale, some dead, some dried and some still squirming about. The thing about seafood restaurants here is that you can pick which creature you want to eat. Most restaurants have large tanks outside filled with crab, fish, eel and all sorts of unidentifiable things. On Gwangalli beach the predominant creature was crab on Haeundae it was eel. I decided on the pork mentioned previously.

The train ride was nice, not too long, and it provided a view of life outside of Seoul. The countryside is gorgeous and full of hills and mountains. Rice paddies and greenhouses dot the landscape and farmers wearing big straw hats work in the fields. People were fishing in the streams and rivers and life without high rises seemed simple and native. It was nice to see traditional Korean homes from a distance and simple streets and green everywhere. Unfortunately, I have no pictures of this, but when I venture outside of Seoul again, I will try to take some. I have more pictures from the Busan trip on Facebook and more will be posted to Flickr later this evening or tomorrow sometime.

Busan and Bibimbap

2008-08-14T07:11:00.006-05:00

I have tomorrow off and I am going to Busan. I booked my KTX tickets this afternoon and as of right now I don't have a place to stay. However, I was informed that this won't be a problem and I have a few places I will check out as soon as I get there. I plan to find a place to stay, chill on the beach and eat some delicious food for the entirety of Friday. Saturday I'll probably check out some of the sights and sounds of Busan and if time allows, chill on the beach. I leave at noon on Sunday because I wanted to back in Seoul at a reasonable time. The train only takes 3 hours, but I still wanted some time at home before work on Monday. Part of me is worried about not having a place to stay, but I'll figure it out. I can always try my Korean and ask around.

Last night I went to dinner with Lindsay and Jesse and since they paid last time, I treated. Only 11,000W for the three of us, you can't get too much better than that. I had bibimbap and it was really good, in fact I went back tonight for dinner. It was different tonight, spicier and a couple of different vegetables, but still good. The first picture is what it looks like before you mix it all together. It has egg, seaweed, lettuce, bean sprouts and two things I don't know. Under all of that is red pepper paste, where it gets its spice, and rice. Of all the things I've had in Korea so far, I think this is my favorite. It tastes good, not excellent, but good and it's cheap. Tonight I paid 4,000W for dinner. It really is cheaper to eat out, if you choose wisely and stick to Korean restaurants, than it is to buy food at the grocery store. If I wanted to make bibimbap I would probably have to spend twice as much at the grocery than at a restaurant. When AT (my recruiter) told me people live on about $300 a month and eat out every meal (and pay bills) I thought I could do better than that if I buy stuff and cook at home, not true at all. While I haven't come close to spending that much money, I can see how it could be done. I actually do have some bills to pay, about $100, but I have yet to do so. It doesn't seem to be a big deal at this point as I've received the same bill twice with no late fee attached. Don't worry, they will be paid next week. Anyway, the second picture is the bibimbap after it has been mixed together and ready to eat.

4x100m Relay and Money

2008-08-12T07:04:00.002-05:00

I finally got to watch the 4x100m relay! It was amazing and even though I knew the outcome, I was at the edge of my seat and cheering as loudly as one can while at work, in a library. I watched it again when I got home (from BBC), on better quality than a YouTuber taping right off their TV.

In other news, I had been trying to figure out how to transfer money from Korea to the US so I can pay bills and establish a savings account. I had looked into some traditional ways, MoneyGram and even setting up a CITI bank account here and in the US for easy transfer, but after Google searches and ex-pat websites I found transfermate.com. At first I thought it was shoddy, but of course I researched it and found it to be a good and cheap tool for transferring funds. The downside is a minimum transfer, but the first transfer is free. I should have the funds in my US Bank account by the close of business today!

Olympics, Payday and English

2008-08-11T18:05:00.004-05:00

As everyone is well aware, the Olympics are currently being held in Beijing. To my advantage, I can watch them as they air and not have to be up at odd hours or TiVo them for later. This is a thrilling experience as I was able to watch the Opening Ceremonies live and without commercial interruption. The downfall is that I can't always watch Americans. I didn't see the famed 4x100m relay (and NBC won't let me watch online because I'm not in the US). However, what truly makes me happy is the way Koreans watch and cheer on their athletes, their country. The night Minho Choi won the gold in Judo my entire floor erupted in cheers. All of my students know exactly how many medals South Korea has won, 8 to date, the third highest. Last night as I was headed home, I saw the fruit vendor that sits outside of my building with his TV. He and about 15 others were huddled around the TV, in very hot and humid weather, watching the archers take on Italy. The chicken wing place in the bottom of my building has a big screen and I kid you not, at least 50 people were watching there. It paid off, Korea took the gold.

I got my very first teaching paycheck yesterday! It will be my smallest of all teaching checks, but the largest check I have ever received. It's kind of nice going to the bank to make a withdrawal and seeing 1,267,020 on your account slip. However this roughly translates to $1,270. I had $270 taken out for my hospital visit, $88 for taxes (yes, only $88), $56 for medical insurance (thank goodness or the hospital visit would have been about 3x what it was) and $99 for pension (which I get back when I leave Korea, it'll be about $1,000). All in all, its perfect. I can pay my bills (more like start paying off my bills) and still have money for living expenses. I have Friday off and I am thinking of going to Busan for the weekend, but I still need to get a train ticket and a place to stay, nothing like the last minute I suppose. I did go back to COEX yesterday so I could buy the Korea Lonely Planet travel guide. It was suggested I buy this before coming to Korea, but after looking at the online reviews from Amazon I chose a Frommer's guide instead. However, everyone I have talked to loves their Lonely Planet so I thought I'd jump on that wagon. The bookstore at COEX has a ton of Lonely Planets, my next purchase? Southeast Asia on a Shoestring.

For the last few weeks I have been meaning to post about the random things that happen while I'm walking to work or headed for the subway. Most of them (all of them) are encounters with English. A few weeks ago, as I was headed for the subway, a man came up to me and said, "hello, lovely day." I just siled at him because I didn't realize what he had said until a few seconds later. For the last week, on my way to school, I have seen a man walking the opposite direction of me. The first morning he said, "good morning." The second morning we had a conversation. He said, "good morning again." I replied, "good morning." "My name is Simon, what's yours?" "I'm Molly, nice to meet you." "You too," he replied. I saw him yesterday and we exchanged a simple "hello."